NOTHING GETS HIDDEN FOREVER. It's true the scents of perfume smell so nice. Meanwhile, through the centuries that we are aware of [at least even referencing our history books], TRUTH prevails regardless if it is a positive OR negative one. Just like in our own homes, at times, we tend to sweep the dust under the carpet and even keep anything that smells unpleasant way beyond. BUT it goes only as far as time can handle it BUT for how long? Even more than 6 years after his suicide while imprisoned, that JEFFREY EPSTEIN saga has dragged one too many personalities and as it is, scandals know NO BOUNDARIES. You can even be a member of the British Royalty like the former 'PRINCE' Andrew, one of the key members of the Mountbatten-Windsor Family๐๐๐
Studies show that much as our body needs ATP [Adenosine Triphosphate], that universal energy currency molecule our brain needs, it needs that constant supply of ATP to 'power' its functions such as neurotransmitter cycling. Surprisingly, without that ATP, our brain cannot perform complex tasks like forming thought OR even moving muscles. And the derived conclusion is that it is human nature for us to be as perfect as possible๐ง๐ง๐ง
Then, voila, WHAT happens next? Lies and dishonesty may creep in. BUT the huge catch here is that no one and nothing can ever-ever hide the truth for so long, including the most unpleasant ones. BUT here's the thing. WHY can there be chronic and idemic lies over and over again? WHEN some things are better left unsaid, NOT because they are shameful OR wrong BUT because saying them out loud might do more harm than good. YES, we all do have passing thoughts, small frustrations, OR those private feelings that live in the quiet corners of our minds. And sometimes, sharing every single one of them does not help BUT instead, it chips things away❌❌❌
So, here's a NOT so challenging question. Does keeping something to yourself mean you are being dishonest? I had to sneak into the world views even from psychology experts and in unison, their response is "NOT ALWAYS"!. As there is a difference between hiding and choosing peace. Between silence and secrecy, knowing WHEN to speak and WHEN to stay silent is a quiet skill, one that grows with time, trust and even, hold your breath, unconscious care. These experts further opine that because while dishonesty matters deeply, NOT all truths need to be voiced to be valid. Sometimes, keeping a few personal secrets is just a softer way of holding space๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
Our takeaway: Interestingly, allow me to paste here instances WHERE experts opine are better off as UNSAID: Those small annoyances that do NOT truly matter. Those doubts that could be just passing emotions. Past hookups that have NO relevance now [YES, your own history is YOURS๐ก๐ก๐ก] Those opinions and heresay that remain as such. WHY repeat them? True, NOTHING GETS HIDDEN FOREVER but NOT everything is either black OR white from this dimension, dude๐๐๐






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