Why IMPERFECT Decisions Could Be The PERFECT Ones!
Life is NEVER perfect and likewise, decisions can never be PERFECT PERFECTLY. BUT the truth is, nothing impacts our mental health quite like poor decision-making. WHEN we regret the choices we make, it's easy to overlook things, place blame , worry, become anxious and more. BUT the simple fact is that we all make a staggering thousands of decisions each day. BUT do we know Why IMPERFECT Decisions Could Be The PERFECT Onesπππ
This one is for the books. Researches show that every day, we make more than 200+ decisions just about food alone. It's NOT surprising then that every once in a while, we make bad choices . Often times, a bad DECISION is fairly inconsequential. Maybe you picked a new book and read and it was dull OR you decided to wash your car only to rain thereafter. NO big deal thoughπ§π§π§
BUT here's the catch, sometimes with poor DECISION making comes consequences. Maybe you leave a good job for WHAT you think will be a great job and then the new company downsizes quickly and lays you off [Ooooops, this happened to me once [way back in Singapore] and it was damn painful]. OR maybe you made an investment with your hard earned savings only to lose it. OR you yelled at someone, screaming that you DON'T want to see that face ever again [WHEN deep inside, you loved that fellow, ouch]. BUT the truth of the matter is that as much as DECISIONS look imperfect the next day or so, at that very point in time, that could have been the best PERFECT DECISION everπ₯π₯π₯
So, it's NOT apt to be hard on our own selves on that aftermath of a DECISION made because the dynamics of every situation are so fluid. BUT if indeed a particular DECISION is imperfect from whatever perspective you assess it, MAYBE, we can forgive ourselves even after feeling regret, OR anger OR even embarrassment OR sadness OR even manifesting a combination of any of those emotions, WHICH is perfectly fineπππ
Our takeaway: Much as we want to look back, the way to go is to move forward and take action. The worst thing to ad after making a bad DECISION is doing NOTHING. Can we repair a situation? OR at least reduce the impact of its consequences? Either way is an appropriate next move rather than sulking and beating yourself because IMPERFECT DECISIONS COULD BE THE PERFECT ONESπππ
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