Life Is All About The 3 C's

Somebody rightfully said that "LIFE IS ALL ABOUT THE CHOICES WE MADE".  And if I may expound that, LIFE IS ALL ABOUT THE 3 C's namely, CHOICES, CHANCES and CHANGES.  The decisions we take every single day, WHETHER big OR small, they all impact our life in one way OR another and determine HOW our coming years would unfold.  Very much plainly simple, the better our CHOICES today, the better opportunity becomes a bigger probability come next day

NOT to be a spoiler BUT there are multifarious variables in our daily lives WHICH are very likely to factor-in.  LIKE staying more online than offline.  Apparently, our smartphones and laptops have become our 'fifth limb' and it has become practically impossible to imagine our life without them.  I'll admit I'm on my iPhone before I hit the sack and come next morning, WHILE drinking warm water, I'll be on either device

BUT many of us [and sometimes I'm #1 GUILTY on this] fail to strike a balance between the virtual and real worlds.  LIKE instead of spending time with our near and dear ones in real life [NOT online], creating memories [NOT sharing the ones that pop on our feed] and cherishing the present moment [rather than staying glued to the smartphone for almost NO reason], we are glued to the online world and are NOT enjoying those little things around us that may NOT be present maybe ten years from now💚💛💜

And HOW about toxic relationships?  That is bound to bring negativity [IF NOT an 'all-out war'] in one's life and can even take its toll on one's mental health.  WHETHER it is a relationship with a friend, colleague, personal partner, business partner OR neighbor, it is wisest  to kind of step back the moment you realize it is NO longer serving its purpose.  Remember, your happiness lies in your own hands and by choosing to remain in an unhealthy relationship, you MIGHT be inviting years of potential sufferings ahead💧💧💧

Oh Oh, this is tougher WHEN we miss out saving for the rainy days ahead.  As life is unpredictable and we never know WHAT happens the very next moment, saving for those rainy days ahead will go a long way in somehow securing yourself financially and be prepared for the unforeseen circumstances.  There's a pitfall here.  I've witnessed first hand people WHO worked their butts and kicked their ass for the longest years working overseas BUT on the same breadth, they seem to really enjoy and relish life and like a 'post dated cheque', Sadly, for those narratives I'm aware of, 'something happened' before their targetted timeline.  In a nutshell, they went back home like penniless [as they counted chicks before it gets hatched]😡😡😡

NOW let's swing to the other end of the spectrum.  Heard OR known folks WHO have been slogging through all life nonstop?  True, we all want to climb up the corporate ladder, earn and shop without even seeing the price tag.  In the end, to achieve our professional goals, many of us end up neglecting our family and friends.  To cut the long story short, some fail to achieve that work-life balance❌❌❌

Our takeaway:  Bottomline here is, seemingly, the most common and recurring miss is NOT prioritizing one's needs.  Thing is, many of us have that tendency of pleasing others and keep our priorities on the back burner.  We fail to practice 'self-love' and fail to realize that a happier 'US' would make us a better partner, parent, friend and in turn, a satisfied individual.  Instead of getting waylaid, let us TAKE CHARGE of our life, focus on your needs, chase your dreams and BE YOUR OWN HERO💪💪💪