Life Is All About Being Yourself

Life Is All About Being Yourself

Being yourself DOESN'T mean you need to be selfish OR you DON'T care about anyone.  Being yourself means you like WHO you are.  Being yourself means living life HOW you wanted to live it [regardless of other peoples' opinions].  And it just means you respect yourself, period.  Worrying about WHAT others will think is just an utter waste of time because me and you CAN'T really control their thoughts.  Life Is All About Being Yourself📗📙📘

Let's NOT forget this:  Everyone has his/her own life and they are free to live their life on their very own terms and conditions [NOT ours, NOT yours, BTW].  I've met people up close in the past, people WHO were genuinely kind , people WHO always thought about the happiness of others and always tried to meet the societies expectations.  WHAT happened next?  Many of them did struggle most of the time as they wanted to be WHAT others expect, ending up to constantly please other people and NOT be judged harshly❎❎❎

One narrative WHICH I did bear witness a zillion times even involved family members and cousins WHO ended up being 'compared'  [WHEN in reality, they ended up being pitted up in a competition between themselves].  Some even ended up copying themselves so they can get the compliments WHICH was 'music to their ears'.  BUT the net-net result is that people literally stopped being themselves, their 'REAL YOU', no thanks to that mindset of competing OR others💥💥💥

We CAN'T blame you for being NOT what you really are because for the longest time, maybe you [unknowingly OR unconsciously] believed that the goal was to fix all the aspect of yourself that was deemed either less OR not acceptable to others.  In short, you probably ended up so misguided to be the 'PERFECT YOU' [WHEN you CAN'T be that 'PERFECT' one at all😖😖😖

Our takeaway:  DON'T ever convince yourself that you will only ACCEPT yourself after you receive that ACCEPTANCE from other people.  NO sirrrrrs, that's a skewed perspective because you will likely end up [wrongly] feeding yourself with helplessness, powerlessness, incompleteness and be as USELESS as you wrongly thought.  Dude, LIFE IS ALL ABOUT BEING YOURSELF❗❗❗