Where's the Inflection Point
Here we go again. Everyone agrees that life is never flat, not even like Planet Earth [as some wrongly hypothesized]. On the other hand, while everyone of us know fully well that indeed life is no less than a rough-and-tumble world, what befuddles us is that many of us are not lifting any finger at all on the premise that this is all part of life and there is nothing we can do. But hey, I'll push hard on you to be incisive to figure out as to Where's the Inflection Point.No one size fits all. That explains why we're here, to share my 2-cents where it's worth it.
Monday, June 27, 2022
Where's the Inflection Point
Sunday, June 26, 2022
No Time? Make Time!
No Time? Make Time!
How many times in life did we blurt out that we have NO TIME? Probably a zillion times, right? The truth is, that is mankind's most favorite and most overused excuse in life. Whether it is for mundane things to meeting expectations of your friends to complying with workplace requirements to standing up to your responsibilities as a partner/spouse or worst, if your health seems to be failing, we are all guilty [OVER and OVER AGAIN] for finding a way out by claiming you have No Time?But the mother of all questions is this: Is having NO TIME a valid and credible reason? Having NO TIME becomes valid if emergencies and/or sudden turn of events happen in our life. When your bosom friend suddenly flies back to the country and at that time you were on a business trip, it is a no brainer that that reason is valid. But if every now and then, you are chasing time as if it is ticking just too fast or you seem to be at the tail-end of things, unable to 'DELIVER the DELIVERABLE', how can you buttress the fact that more often, having NO TIME is more of a ruse, an excuse, an alibi no less. But you might get back to me scream, BUT THAT IS NOT A CRIME! Of course it is not but when you condone your recurring NO TIME excuse, does it hold water?
Over this most recent weekend, myself and my wife were in a dilemma because we wanted to be in two places on the same day but the catch is that those two places are 101 miles apart [and that's not even a straight line to traverse]. Lo and behold, we managed to FIND TIME, TAKE the TIME and MAKE the TIME. How? We had to tweak things a bit without spoiling my family's holiday schedule and at the same, keeping up to our promise to travel [whatever it takes] to be with our daughter's favorite teacher.When we finally reached home Sunday evening, it was a miracle of sorts because 'INSPITE of WAZE' [yes that's true, the WAZE app was more of a challenge as it was pointing me to traverse across directions that would have thrown a monkey wrench to be at the place at the appointed time]. And I'd admit it was no mean feat because from the time our family had a 'quick' breakfast buffet then checking out from our hotel, I gave myself no more than three hours to be at the next destination [which place we were going for the very first time]. Lo and behold, we made it. This latest feat we achieved just reinforces the fact that having NO TIME is the last excuse in life. Hoping we can replicate this in our life over and over again, with no pressures to wilt⌛⌛⌛
Friday, June 24, 2022
Tidy Up OR The Mess Will Get Messier
Tidy Up OR The Mess Will Get Messier
Life is all a matter of choices and at any given time, we could end up with situations either in a mess or at the very least, not so tidy enough. And that's fine as long as we have our buy-in that the next decision point is to Tidy Up OR The Mess Will Get Messier. But a devil's advocate can argue, WHY NOT LET THE MESS DIE A NATURAL DEATH. Good grief. Too bad though, any mess in life never dies a natural death but instead, the ugly head of the snake might even spring out of it and before you know it, you have a situation that is not only unmanageable but worse, one that may be unresolvable.Do an apples-to-apples comparison. Isn't there a huge difference between a BEFORE and the AFTER if ever a mess did gets put back in order? And take a contrarian view. WHAT IF you didn't lift a finger? Do you think the status quo would remain AS IS? Oh, DON'T buy that fallacy at all.So, what's really the QUICK FIX? Dude, this is all a D-I-Y thing. Clean up your own mess but how? First off, atone to it, accept it, own it. From there, plot your action plan how to attack that mess. And if we're referring to a messy relationship, that's a steep mountain to climb up and overcome. Bottom line, is NEVER turn around and look the other way because you're DIGGING YOUR OWN GRAVE for that. You got to pull the bull by its horn no less.BTW, if children can clean-up their own mess, why can't we? Frankly though, taking the first step is the hardest part because you got to halt that momentum of your skid and turn it around in one hundred eighty degrees. And that is huge turnaround! So how? Simplify a complex and tricky situation. First things first. Go for the low-hanging fruits. Don't cherry pick though. Take as you pick. Take that need to fix a relationship, that could be akin to a TUG of WAR because likely, two protagonists will hold their ground and wpn't cede an inch, whatever happens.And when protagonists reach an impasse, there will be NO QUARTERS given or taken. Each one will dig up their heels in their respective trenches. Oh, sorry about that. That reminds me when I witnessed relationships eventually floundered because neither party would want to cede or give up an inch. Why? More often, the ugly head of PRIDE creeps in and everything just crumbles down. So, let's put back SANITY in the rightful place and let us be fair and just if we have that good faith and resolve to really TIDY UP THINGS or the MESS GETS MESSIER❗❗❗Thursday, June 23, 2022
Seize the Moment [Carpe Diem]
Seize the Moment [Carpe Diem]
Throughout our lives, we all go through zillions of moments, peaks and valleys, troughs and and trenches but what most of us tend to miss is that opportunity to Seize the Moment a.k.a. Carpe Diem. This may be quite convoluted because there are moments in our life which we'd rather forget and obliterate from our memories and that's understandable. But how about all other moments which we could have Seized the Moment and end up on the uptick.Wednesday, June 22, 2022
Know the PRICE POINT
Know the PRICE POINT
Oh, today's piece is not a commercial doc. You could be a student now or simply a partner of your spouse. Nevertheless, you cannot be bailed out from Knowing your PRICE POINT because each of us does command a PRICE but the bigger question where all the interested parties will be likely begging to hear and know is that what is your PRICE POINT. Unfortunately, everything has a PRICE POINT.
And the variable that is always pegged to one's PRICE POINT is your very own VALUE as a product. So, where's the beef? For you to have a good and reasonable PRICE POINT, your VALUE will need to be figured out. And how will you be assessed? Like it or not, you will BENCHMARKED with today's market. How good are you in your craft, how efficient are you, how good is your quality, among others.Tuesday, June 21, 2022
Are You Cooked and Burned?
Are You Cooked and Burned?
Nope, today's thread is NOT about culinary arts. But instead, we'd like to peek into our lives and ask ourselves if we are Cooked and Burned as we speak now? Frankly in life, we do NOT expect to be that Cooked and Burned so soon in life because even our normal trajectories normally shapes up in a gradual, managed approach. But if you got Cooked and Burned so soon in life, we got to figure out why this early, you really got Cooked and Burned because that's alarming So, what does being Cooked and Burned really mean? Frankly, if you're in a workplace, that could imply that you're feeling BURNT OUT. It's like your energy is spent, your drive is drained. That's when you feel zapped. But the bigger question stomping right in our face is as to what and why it took that fast for you get drained, spent and zapped? Is/Was it your lifestyle? Your discipline in life? Or how purposeful your life was?If there's a word we need to attack now, it is 'BURNOUT' because whether you're still in the academe or now in the workplace, you might get caught with 'BURNOUT' much sooner. Why? Could it be discontentment either with your academic nentors in school? Or your bosses at the workplace? Or it could be a rough-and-tumble relationship that has been rocking wildly till you got thrown off?Monday, June 20, 2022
Go Beyond Being Cynical
Go Beyond Being Cynical
Please allow me to day-dream now, albeit in a fleeting way. I closed my eyes and I ask myself how often have I been cynical in life. And regardless if it is often or rarely, it's worth asking why can't we Go Beyond Being Cynical? Definitely, this could open up the floodgates for a debate whether it's worth our time today to discuss being cynical. But let me be frank enough on this. Cynicism impacts our life.The worst thing about the constant barrage of negative voices is that they snuff out HOPE. And you never get to a better future without HOPE. So how do we handle the cynics? First off, trace back the SOURCE. Drill down further and you might discover that in their personal livs, they've rarely attempted anything. Lesson here: NEVER TRUST those who have opinions on everything and even attempt nothing with their own life. BTW, cynicism is NOT a spiritual gift. HOLD ON though. NOT all negative opinions are bad opinions. Sometimes, what you're saying or doing needs correction in whole or in part. And I learned in life that the best critiques come from people who are attempting to do something significant with their lives. So, please let us GO BEYOND BEING CYNICAL📌📌📌
Sunday, June 19, 2022
Cover Your Tracks
Cover Your Tracks
Good morning and HAPPY SUNDAY. Oh, did it ever cross your mind that you need to Cover Your Tracks? Nemind. Let's just agree to this basic ground rule that while being an 'OPEN BOOK' seems to be ideal, life ISN'T all about being an 'OPEN BOOK' because reality is, it is imperative to Cover Your Tracks when needed. In any facet of your daily life, a modicum of prudence and privacy dictates upon us to take those proactive measures. Even at the workplace where you are fully aware of what/where are the 'CHINKS IN YOUR ARMOUR' so you would come up with a remediation plan to resolve those 'chinks' because no way should you be 'EXPOSED'BTW, this ground rule is equally imperative in our digital activities. That explains why browsers and apps would always give you an option to CLEAR HISTORY because simply put, you need to Cover Your Tracks. Leave that OPEN and UNATTENDED. Voila, you will be EXPOSED [you DON'T want that]Even in your best plans with the best intentions, you want to keep things under wraps because by doing so, it gives you that motivation to push yourself to go for results and that's by way of covering your tracks.Not to impute that there are people around/near you with ill intentions but that's the harsh reality we need to face especially when we're dealing with strangers. So you don't spill out details of your financials, be it your savings or liabilities. And in the workplace, by being aware of your weaknesses at work and working to fix it all, until then, you continue to cover your tracks.
So as I won't be misconstrued of ramming this through your throat, we fervently hope that we're all aligned with the given that life is all about repeated 'BALANCING ACTS' when you need to weigh when to be COVERT versus OVERT as either option has its UPsides and DOWNsides. Bottom line is Covering Your Tracks will always hinge on your JUDGMENT CALL because that's all matters in life⏳⏳⏳
Saturday, June 18, 2022
Watch Your TRAJECTORY
Watch Your TRAJECTORY
Seriously, how's your TRAJECTORY as we speak now? Not to be scared, there is no right or wrong answer but we need an answer, I'm serious. Otherwise, if you tell me now that you are totally clueless as regards your TRAJECTORY as we speak now, that is so alarming because that tells me of fluttering RED FLAGS that need to be addressed with no less than an urgencySo, the biggest question you might dump on me is this: WHO CARES about the TRAJECTORY. Ooooops, we got to know our TRAJECTORY as we speak now because we got to pay attention to how our we faring in life. Starting to build SELF-AWARENESS is the first step after all.Seriously, it's hard to find our purpose because we DON'T really know ourselves. We DON'T know what we genuinely like to do or why we do what we do. We NEVER question what influences us. We even end up in a career because our parents approved of it, because we thought it would be safe or because it was easy enough.
Friday, June 17, 2022
Recency Bias
Recency Bias
For us to be on the same page, let me quote how Recency Bias is defined in Wikipedia: It is a COGNITIVE BIAS THAT FAVORS RECENT EVENTS OVER HISTORIC ONES whereas in MEMORY BIAS, it gives MORE IMPORTANCE TO THE MOST RECENT EVENT. In brief, it is no less than a psychological phenomenon where a person can remember something which has happened recently.If you are into trading, Recency Bias is your #1 enemy. Why? Because it tends to extrapolate the recent experiences that will happen to you in the future. And if you are into investing and trading, Recency Bias is one of the biggest disasters that you may face because when investors try to invest, the Recency Bias skews the entire reality.Straight from my thought processes...
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