How Far AI Will Impact Our Lives

 

Recently, I came across a Channelnewsasia piece titled "WHEN AI GETS A BOARD SEAT". That egged me to have that topic as our thread today.  p.s. I grabbed this pic on the left from that Channelnewsasia piece.  WHEN [and NOT IF] AI eventually takes over our lives, that should be the most contentious phenomenon because I always believe that AI is our best tool for specific purposes BUT NOT for decisions that are best arrived at by the human mind📗📙📘

Many years ago, I was at the front seat of a forum hosted by Oracle top gun Larry Ellison and he was then showcasing and giving a 'sneak preview' of WHAT's to come with regard AI, sharing actual footages of his mansion with all the intelligent systems built within.  And I was deeply in awe during that time [and unconsciously tongue-tied] because in the Third World, I can just guess how many decades [if NOT centuries] before that unfolds in my local setting.  BUT for AI to have a BOARD SEAT???

NOT even delving into scams WHERE AI is right at the side, behind, on top and in front, we may NOT be aware but a plurality of teens [NOT just in First World countries] are succumbing to AI.  I even personally believe that even as we speak now, many parents across Third World countries may NOT even be aware that WHEN their teen child seems desolate and forlorn, they succumb to the clutches of AI [even for emotional refuge]❎❎❎

Going back to this AI 'brouhaha', while almost all researches and lab experiments share consistent results that AI can indeed outperform us humans, me thinks, outside the lab, there is a super huge port of the pie WHERE decisions are best left to us, humans.  I DON'T sound to be like anti-AI because I lived my life within the technology space even as we speak now.  BUT allow me to highlight one thing here.  AI is data-driven, period.  Even assuming that all inputted data are 'clean', next question, are the data complete???  At work, we all churn out reports as part of data-driven operational excellence reporting.  BUT for AI to run our personal lives, I have very serious apprehensions😌😌😌

Our takeaway:  Let's picture out the waters parting across the Red Sea.  On one flank, let's leave AI because their large language models [LLMs] can outperform humans in most tasks related to product design, cost control and market intelligence.  At the other flank, let us leave that for humans because there are tons of life decisions WHERE AI can NEVER supplant OR override us humans.  NO WAY, Jose❗❗❗

How Many Times Did Our Brain Trick Us? Time For Us To Trick Our Brain As Well

 

HOW many times did our brain trick us?  Definitely gazillion times.   BUT WHAT amazes me is that our brain is capable of remarkable things from remembering a conversation you had with a dear friend to solving a complex mathematical problem.  BUT our mind is far from perfect though.  Sometimes, it forgets some key details too, like your overdue dentist appointment OR a meeting with a client you have been eyeing for a new contract option📘📙📗

And things can turn to worst WHEN our brain even forgets important details that cause us to even get hurt OR sick.  At the very least, these brain blips are annoying.  True, sometimes we might be inclined to write off these mistakes as simple errors OR blame stress OR a lack of time.  The fact is, "BRAIN DRAIN" is the problem and according to psychologists, that's just inevitable.  The good thing is that we are advised we can avoid some of the biases, perceptual shortcomings❌❌❌

If there's a catch, experts tell us that our mind likes to take SHORTCUTS.  This is explained by the fact that one of the biggest shortcomings of our brain is that it can get LAZY.  WHEN trying to solve a problem OR even make a decision, our mind often falls back on rules of thumbs OR solutions that have worked in the past.  Using shortcuts can be a useful and effective approach WHEN it allows you to make decisions quickly without needing to sort through every solution📌📌📌

Coined by experts as heuristics, these mental shortcuts can also trip us up and cause us to commit mistakes.  For example, e could be terrified of flying because we [wrongly] think of several tragic , high-profile lane crashes.  BUT in reality, traveling by air s much safer than traveling by car.  However, our BRAIN is using that MENTAL SHORTCUT to fool us into believing that flying is that more dangerous than it really is.  In the end, even our own thinking is sometimes swayed by those hidden biases.  LIKE predispositions an influence HOW we perceive people, HOW we think about events and WHAT aspects of a situation we can pay attention to WHEN making a decision💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  Biases can throw a monkey wrench at things, and sometimes positively though.  LIKE that so called 'halo effect' that makes us assume that a good-looking ew coworker must also e a morally good person.  WHEN that hindsight bias is at play, we might blurt out and declare categorically LIKE "I KNEW WE WERE GOING TO LOSE" after your favorite team strikes out, even though you had NO way of knowing HOW the game would unfold.  Attritional bias can make us judge a person unfairly LIKE WHEN a barista gets your order wrong on a busy morning, you might decide that they are incompetent OR DON'T care about their job.  Maybe they were just overwhelmed by HOW many orders they had to make.  So, HOW MANY TIMES DID OUR BRAIN TRICK US?  TIME FOR US TO TRICK OUR BRAIN AS WELL😁😁😁

When Do You Step Off The Gas?

Anyone heard guarantees that the roads you will be trekking will be smoothly paved as WHAT you wish for?  Without those challenges, bumps and humps all rolled into one?  I remember our Physics class way back High School WHEN our teacher asked, WHY do we use brakes in a car?  Obviously, mostly blurted, to stop the car, to reduce speed, to avoid accident.  Surprise of all surprises, our teacher said the best answer was this:  TO MAKE IT POSSIBLE TO DRIVE THE CAR AT HIGH SPEED'.  So, When Do You Step Off The Gas???

From a life perspective, BRAKES give us that confidence to accelerate, push forward, knowing we can control and steer safely toward our destination.  In our lives, though, the BRAKES often come disguised as parents questioning our decisions, mentors guiding us, OR friends offering unsolicited advice.  BUT one thing I observed is that sometimes [or for myself, many times in the past], I did hate the BRAKES in life because I thought I would lose that momentum WHICH, as a driver, I relish the most [as I sometimes feel I can even break the glass ceiling💥💥💥

As life is full of UPs and DOWNs, one day, you might feel like you have it all figured out.  Then in a moment's notice, you've been thrown that curve ball.  BUT you're NOT alone in those feelings because everyone has his own set of challenges.  Learning HOW to overcome challenges will help you stay centered and remain calm even WHEN under that recurring pressures in life.  It's true everyone has his own preferences for HOW to face the challenges in life.  BUT do you know there are a few good tricks here and there😊😊😊

SO HOW?  First off, we're advised to MAKE A PLAN.  WHILE you DON'T know WHAT is going to happen in the future, you can always plan ahead.  Look at the patterns in your life and see WHAT challenges you've struggled with.  Then, let us assess the 'optimal' outcomes and MAKE A PLAN for how you can achieve them.  If you work somewhere and can anticipate the types of challenges you face, then you can PLAN ahead.  Next step, always be conscious that YOU'RE NOT ALONE💚💛💜

Our takeaway:  FEEL YOUR FEELINGS.  By masking your feelings, those lingering stuff will never go away. Rather, feelings become trapped energy and can even have negative health consequences if we ignore it.  So, do take some time to feel WHAT you feel.  OR if you'd rather write down WHAT you feel, even writing down can be a therapeutic and even eventually a cathartic experience.  And WHEN you feel and share your feelings, it's likely you can see your situation in a new light.  Dude, let's be aware WHEN DO WE STEP OFF THE GAS❗❗❗

REALITY It Is! BUT PERCEPTION Is It?

 

REALITY it is!  BUT PERCEPTION is it?  As they say, it is easy to feel like this world we live in seems getting worse?  Hear the news, read social media and then add to it, our respective personal struggles all add up to that recipe that can seem that way.  BUT can we step back and look at the BIG PICTURE because very likely the data, and even your own data will paint a different picture.  True, poverty is chronic especially in Africa and in war-torn Middle East.  BUT WHY should we feel that things have turned from bad to worse📗📙📘

The mother of all caution now is all about PERCEPTION.  Because, PERCEPTION can shape up the REALITY you will see, hear OR feel [and sadly, that so-called 'REALITY' you will believe to be the gospel truth may be a 'half-truth' at best.  BUT in the simplest terms, WHAT we believe in can become the TRUTH.  That starts with our faith [YES, even atheists have that faith in themselves NOT to believe in any faith].  Worst thing here is that IF we believe that the world is falling apart, we then tend to filter information to confirm that belief [rightly OR wrongly].  WHY do we sometimes end up with this convoluted train of thought until it goes berserk💥💥💥

Studies showed and proved that our 'INNER WORLD' matters most to us.  The systems closest to us, our relationships, work and mindset, impact us more that external factors, often way beyond our control.  This explains WHY we heard 'TELL ME WHO YOUR FRIENDS ARE AND I'LL TELL WHO YOU ARE'.  Precisely, it is our association, intended OR not, that plays a huge hand in even influencing and shaping us✅✅✅

As I heard many times till to date, WE SEE WHAT WE WANT TO SEE.  If we look for NEGATIVITY, guaranteed you will find it.  BUT dude, POSITIVITY is just as present if we choose and opt to see it.  Just DON'T filter and be selective.  WHAT can we do then?  Firstly, we are NOT powerless.  We can and should, in fact, challenge our PERCEPTIONs, shift our focus and plot out our life plans.  Any day now, IF you think the world out there is harsh and terrible, YES it will likely be harsh and terrible [sadly, that will be for you]😌😌😌

Our takeaway:  I heard this sage advice many times.  Trueness, we need validation.  BUT the gross misstep is IF we end up seeking approval from OTHERS.  NO sirrrrrs.  Instead, seek approval from your own self.  Shift other peoples' needs in front of yours.  Realize it by following yourself.  BUT ooooops, if you're caught in the middle of a traffic gridlock under scorching heat, DON'T misstep by bringing down the window and yelling OR blowing your car's horns.  That's another facet of REALITY we need to face.  Meanwhile, DON'T LET PERCEPTION TAKE OVER YOU, dude❗❗❗

Do We Need To Be FEISTY?

 

Do we need to be FEISTY?  Me thinks this is one attribute so helpful and impactful in our life yet often undervalued IF NOT totally ignored.  And WHILE sometimes, the influence of cultures do come into play, I WON'T buy that excuse that it's a culture thing.  Nope.  Instead, being FEISTY is something we need to embrace for it to evolve as part of our character formation📗📙📘

As per wikiHow, WHEN we think of FEISTY people, these are the strong-willed and vivacious yet playful with that zest of life we'll envy.  I've been to one too many team-buildings and in those events, the FEISTY folks will pop-up within the 1st minute of the event.  For us to BUY-IN and develop to become a FEISTY one, it all sorts by being assertive and bold.  BTW, being FEISTY is NOT an overnight thing.  We got to develop this over time and can take years BUT the formula here is that there must be a consistent and premeditated pursuit to enhance it as part of your character-building.  NO flashes in the pan please.  And it's true that WHILE you will want to have NO qualms about saying WHAT's on your mind, still be mindful💚💛💜

YES, a very visible manifestation of FEISTY folks is that their emotions SHOW.  WHY?  It's because they want people around to know NOT just WHAT he's thinking BUT equally important, HOW's that feeling.  To a certain degree, the way you feel on the inside should be the way you behave or manifest on the outside.  So, if you want to laugh, laugh.  And if you wanna cry, cry.  Just DON'T waste time worrying about WHAT other people will think about your manifestations, be it your 'verbals' OR body language.  Be WHAT you need to be💧💧💧

Word of caution here.  Let us be 'reasonable' enough about just how extreme you might be in expressing or manifesting your emotions.   IF you tend to be frustrated with something, just DON'T groan loudly and end up rudely interrupting others.  Not to be morbid BUT if you're attending a funeral, avoid breaking into fits of giggles [even if the joke you're thinking of is really funny].  A healthy measure of common sense is key💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  One basic ingredient I learned to reinforce through the years is spelled C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E.  This is easier said than done though.  CONFIDENCE will allow us to be genuine WITHOUT fear, to express ourselves without a tinge of reservation and to care about WHAT others may think in a way that's NOT dependent on their 'approval' for their satisfaction.  And YES, do relish engaging into friendly arguments.  There's NO avoiding it because that's part of the interplays.  BUT that is our chance to stretch our mental and verbal 'muscles', so to speak.  WHAT IF you're NOT FEISTY enough?  Good question.  And frankly, that's NOT the path you want to happen, for your own good dude❗❗❗

Never Let the Genie Get Out Of The Bottle!!!

 

No sirrrrrrs, this is NOT a promotional pitch for Christina Aguilera's GENIE IN A BOTTLE to crash the billboard charts again.  BUT instead, we'd like to delve into the many irreversible things in life.  I got reminded about it while watching the Netflix ZERO DAY Series starred by Robert De Niro WHERE the incumbent U.S. president was bluntly confronted by the U.S. Speaker that she DIDN'T have the 'political capital' to put the GENIE BACK IN THE BOTTLE.  And surely, each of us have gone through the irreversible things in life📘📙📗

Stating the obvious, damages to properties etcetera are a given BUT WHAT's probably most impactful are those irreversible twists and turns especially in relationships.  WHETHER it's at home OR at the workplace OR in the midst of our commercial forays. as much as possible, we are advised that if there's any form of GENIE that seems to be brewing, let it be that way, keep it away, have it remain inside the bottle as long as possible, preferably forever.  WHY?  Because in many cases, the ramifications could be debilitating and really consequential enough to more than just cause a dent between relationships💧💧💧

And this WHEN and WHERE 'H-E-L-P' surfaces into the picture.  If indeed HELP is needed, let us reach out for HELP if only to bridge, repair OR simply do a 'damage control' before things go out of hand.  LIKE if you have been locking heads with your boss, you're in for a shock of your life if you remain steadfast to further push locking heads and horns💥💥💥

WHAT's the advice we're getting?  If and WHEN things are going awry, grab that steering wheel ASAP before you end up off-road, off-track.  BUT it takes alert decision-making and having that gumption to make those off-the-cuff decisions within a very narrow window of 1 to 5 seconds.  For the complex scenarios involving relationships, the threshold could be minutes and hours BUT no more than a day.  Letting things be AS IT IS way beyond the time you hit the sack, trust me, WHEN you way up come next morning, you will wake up to a much worse situation than it was the day before.  Personally, I have witnessed first hand many situations going down south in drips and drips till it goes pffft and turns deep south ugly enough for you to catch it up❌❌❌

Our takeaway:  This is WHEN procrastination turns its ugly head.  You can procrastinate about going to the mall, going for shopping, dining out and name it BUT there is zero room for procrastination WHEN it comes to repairing and salvaging relationships WHICH sometimes are an offshoot of a minor disagreement that just blows up and out right into our faces.  By that time, we will have too much on our hand, way beyond WHAT we can [deftly] handle.  Bottomline here is, beat the gun, grab the bull by its horns and ensure that the GENIE NEVER GOES OUT OF THE BOTTLE [before it's too late dude]❗❗❗

For Every Choice, A CONSEQUENCE....

 

YES YES YES yow, to quote this from the UNKNOWN, 'FOR EVERY CHOICE, A CONSEQUENCE'.  Supposedly, this is NOT worth to be our thread today.  However, from time to time, I do witness that this unintended lapse continues to hound some of us [even WHEN the person himself is unconscious about it].  Point is, there is a need for us to preferably STEP BACK and look at the bigger picture💚💛💜

Let's take a literal example here.  Everyone must have heard of silos, right?  That was most prevalent during the Middle East turmoil in the past WHEN the western world [the U.S. to be precise] was trying to bring down those despots, Libya's Qaddafi and Saddam Hussein.  YES, we all know, those dictators had their tragic ends BUT are we all aware that most of the military plans to take them down included those missiles in silos providing enough cover to the covert operations.  YES dude, that's how the 'SILO GAMES' played out.  And as post-mortems, the U.S. forces were quite frustrated because they did NOT find the arsenal they thought those despots kept in their bunkers😕😕😕

Point is, even in our civilian lives, WHERE [possible], let us NOT replicate the 'silo-based' warfare tactics because if in war, it barely works, in our human lives, it is guaranteed doomed to fail, WHATEVER it takes.  Point is, a big chunk of decisions we make in life have their corresponding consequences.  That itself behooves that before we end up with decisions that may be more than just another casual one, we are encouraged to develop that thorough thought process, dissect all the PROs and CONs, figure out all the WHAT IFs and yes, DON'T get blinded by those 'best case scenarios' .  NOT to forget, those 'worst case scenarios' may give you that unexpected spoiler.  Then, things can go south pretty fast until you will be unable to handle things with enough control.  WHICH reminds me of impulsive decisions we make in life.  If it's those impulse things related to food and drink and where to go shopping OR 'malling', that's fine BUT WHAT IF your decision is quite consequential [e.g. WHAT IF you get enticed by those credit card promos offering zero-interest payment schemes if you buy and pay via installment], until you realized you've got a serious cash flow issue month after month, whew💥💥💥

Behavior-wise, things become more interesting.  Imagine if you got hooked before either with alcohol or even "OD's", then one day you attempt to stomp your foot down with alcohol.  Then, with so much idle time, you start figuring out HOW to spend that new-found idle time?  On the surface, the whole universe might look brighter BUT deep inside, while you are initially buoyant and happy, in some ways, there's something pulling you back to your 'OLD WAYS'.  Heard the frustrations of smokers WHO went that path only to still end up as smokers till now???

Our takeaway:  NO OFF-THE-CUFF decisions, please, WHERE POSSIBLE.  Unless you're into an emergency situation WHERE decisions need to be made within a minute, take time, even if that time is limited.  WHAT IF time lapses and you HAVEN'T made a decision?  Dude, let us NOT think that far ahead, else, we might get stalled by that 'analysis paralysis' syndrome.  Thing is, FOR EVERY CHOICE, A CONSEQUENCE...

Life Changes Very Quickly In A Very Positive Way IF YOU LET IT

 

Every year, many of us are filled with renewed optimism at making life changes we've always wanted to make.  And everyone has the same chant:  IT'S A FRESH START.  BUT there is always a minority few WHO tend to be more cynical [more than just skeptical] and in the end, they get 'burned' by New Year's resolution that end up as just another set of rehashed wishes.  BUT Life changes very quickly in a very positive way IF YOU LET IT📗📙📘

Each of these is quite understandable BUT the problem with each is that neither really leads to lasting, meaningful change [without some evidence-backed methods to actually make the changes stick].  BUT if we listen to mentors and coaches, they all sing the same tune, that LIFE CHANGES VERY QUICKLY IN A VERY POSITIVE WAY [BUT ONLY IF YOU LET IT].  Looking back, many of our New Year's resolutions DON'T tend to work because of multifarious factors💥💥💥

SO WHY?  Let's rattle off the most obvious low-lying root causes:

• There's that short-term BURST of OPTIMISM [and energy] WHICH normally DOESN'T last that long
• Many of us tend to NOT set up commitments to really last long
• We DON'T have ways of reflecting, learning and adjusting and dealing with the failures and obstacles that inevitably come along, so our attempts end up being very fragile, prone to easily end [and worse, to fall flat even before a plan OR action takes off]

That said, getting jaded about our goals just DOESN'T work because by then, we end up NOT committing ourselves to anything.  NOT getting in touch with possibility, so to speak.  NOT even setting a direction in our life.  LIKE being out to sea without a destination in our life.  WHAT happens next?  We'll float and float WHEREVER the waters will get us drifted to❎❎❎

I've witnessed first-hand some people WHO seem distraught and really down.  And WHEN I dipped my hands to help some people, WHAT I highlighted is that, per se, there are various 'positivities' all around us.  Alas, sometimes those 'positivities' are obscured and worse, they surface as 'negativities' unless you dissect it with a fine tooth of a comb.  BUT WHAT's frustrating is, if the 'road-blocker' is so 'entrenched' within a person, he will be the first one to shut off all 'positivities' he can tap😌😌😌

Our takeaway:  Let us go back to basics, back to the smallest, tiniest steps we can take.  LIKE let's floss just 1 tooth to start with.  LIKE let's do 1 pushup for now [if the gym seems daunting].  LIKE writing one sentence for now [if writing a novel is a tall order].  Note though that those are just starting steps and slowly progress from there.  BUT let us NOT try to get too ambitious in our first start [because that is a recipe of failure, ouch]  YES dude, LIFE CHANGES VERY QUICKLY IN A VERY POSITIVE WAY IF YOU LET IT💚💛💜

NOT Every Single Sage Advice Is Sage Enough

 

Here's a giveaway question.  WHAT is one of the most quoted comments in Meta's FB?  You're spot on, dude.  YES, it's this "FEELING BLESSED" comment that has become kind of a 'run of the mill'.  BUT not to douse cold water for those fulfilling moments, the reality here is NOT every single sage advice is sage enough.  True, we are blessed we got parents, coaches, mentors and elders WHO selflessly advise us of the most important things that will help us survive this rough-and-tumble life we all got📗📙📘

Sadly, even with the best intentions and even WHEN done in good faith, we are egged to reassess with a grain of salt some of these advices.  LIKE WHEN we are told to be JUST BE YOURSELF.  And while authenticity is important, being your TRUE SELF with your friends and family and NOT being envious of those WHO are showing off their lavish lifestyle is very important for your mental health.  LIKE if you're suffering from 'SOCIAL ANXIETY' and you CAN'T even get in a room full of people, let alone hold a conversation💥💥💥

So, WHILE we humans can improve, and become the best versions of ourselves, trying to become that best version is NOT comfortable initially and we're told that to BE YOURSELF means to be authentic and try NOT to be someone else.  Problem is some people take it a bit too far and use it as an excuse to stay complacent.  Another misleading advice we're hearing is that GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  Heard of this chronic trap???

NO Senor.  GOOD THINGS DON'T COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  Instead, GOOD THINGS come to those WHO persevere.  If you are just sitting and waiting there, thinking that things will eventually work out, trust me, you'll NOT go anywhere farther in life. To improve, you've got to determine WHAT you want to become, then craft a plan, and take action toward your goal every single day.  There's simply NO faster way to improve than doing the actual work every day.  Verily true, there are some situations WHEN even vigorous and determined people do get discouraged WHEN they DIDN'T get to see the results yet, OR things just get harder.  And at that time, the advice 'GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT' works.  Frankly, we got to be patient and consistent during the process BUT for starters, it is a loud NO!!!  We have to put in the effort to take action💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  HOW about 'FOLLOW YOUR PASSION'?  People think that WHEN they get to do the work they love all the problems are solved.  They say ''JUST DO THE THING YOU'RE PASSIONATE ABOUT AND EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT", whew.  BUT in reality, it's all an illusion because all work requires effort, there's NO such thin as easy work.  If you want to become good at something it requires time energy and a huge amount of effort😃😃😃

How To Be Better At It

 

Take your pick:  ALL OR NOTHING?  Presto, I'm sure we will all pick "ALL" simply because NO one wants "NOTHING".  Problem here is that that "ALL OR NOTHING" thinking can impede our own motivation to improve ourselves, our skills, our capabilities.  Heard these one-liners many times.  I'm NOT GOOD AT THAT.  I'm a math flunker.  I'm NOT athletic.  I DON'T have that glib to interact with people.  NOW, we're NOT implying that those statements are false because very likely, WHOEVER said it, they said it truthfully with NO slightest deception📗📙📘

WHAT is really one of the obvious truths is that people hold strong beliefs around WHAT they are and are NOT good at.  Furthermore, in many areas in our respective lives, people tend to view themselves through the lens of categorical extremes.  LIKE they are either all good OR all bad at something rather than somewhere in the middle.  Allow me to borrow this psychology jargon called "COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY" a.k.a. CBT wherein we call exaggerated thought processes like these cognitive distortions, the term used to refer to common 'thinking errors'📌📌📌

To be specific, that 'ERROR' of seeing things in a 'black OR white' manner rather than in shades of gray is a classic example of that 'cognitive distortion' called "ALL OR NOTHING' thinking.  The problem with this 'ALL OR NOTHING' thinking NOT only [wrongly] influences our core beliefs we hold about our personal beliefs BUT according to experts, it tends to exert a powerful effect on the explanations we give for HOW there can be such large differences in our abilities💥💥💥

As that old story goes, some people have GOT IT and some DON'T.  THAT we are born with certain strengths and weaknesses that predispose us toward certain pursuits, which means, veering away from the activities, hobbies and occupations we WEREN'T made for, so we should discover WHAT we are naturally good at and probably even uncover our possible potentials hitherto untapped and unrecognized [yet]❌❌❌

Our takeaway:  Listen dude, our life is a bit like going on a treasure hunt, looking for clues on the map that will point us to the right direction, then sometimes getting lost [and worse stuck in dead ends] over and over again, even as our hopes and optimism seem to flicker and wane until one day, BOOM, that sound of our shovel clanging against a metal, then we finally stumble on WHAT we're searching in our treasure hunt.  BUT until we hit paydirt, WHAT better way to be 'BETTER' than to re-do, re-try over and over again, hoping we never give up along the way😊😊😊