Are 'MICRO HABITS' Relevant?

 Are 'MICRO HABITS' Relevant?

Are 'MICRO HABITS' Relevant?  To quote American author John Maxwell: 'YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE YOUR LIFE UNTIL YOU CHANGE SOMETHING YOU DO DAILY'.  The very enticing thing about MICRO HABITS is that most, in fact all of them, entail small efforts but the results could be HUGE or GREAT.  That's the thing about MICRO HABITS, they seem insignificant on their own BUT they can drive a huge difference in our lives.  Plus, MICRO HABITs require very little commitment to breaking a BAD HABIT and becoming a powerful tool for starting NEW HABITs💴💷💵

Thing is, we CAN'T rely on WILLPOWER alone to get us through procrastination and help us achieve great things in life.  WILLPOWER is finite, and it fades AS NIGHT FALLS.  So, in order to achieve great things in life, we must establish systems and HABITS that support our journey toward meaningful GOALS.  So, let's go to rattle off the MICRO HABITS that are now our LOW-HANGING FRUITS📗📙📘

Primero, WRITE DOWN YOUR IDEAS, no matter how they seem so minor or petty.  One issue with ideas is that relying on our [limited] memory to recall them will likely fail us.  Through the years, I did develop this MICRO HABIT to write down an idea that pops-up.  The past years when we got locked out by that pandemic, I leveraged on my iPhone notepad💎💎💎

Segundo, TAKE A PAUSE BEFORE YOU RESPOND.  This happens to everyone of us. WHEN we are in the middle of a heated argument [with emotions sometimes mixing it up], easily we will get get carried away by our emotions and even behave in ways that we will later regret.  So, before answering or reacting, PAUSE or if possible, remove yourself from that 'heated' situation❎❎❎

All along, we have been harping GOALS GOALS GOALS but come to think of it, hands down, even MICRO HABITS will easily beat GOALS.  Tercero, READ something everyday.  In this information age where our BRAINS are burned with cheap DOPAMINE from short videos and other forms of content that are robbing us of our FOCUS on a SINGLE-ACTIVITY, reading is both beneficial for our mind.  Yes dude, even MICRO HABITS are relevant❗❗❗

How Far Can Our SELF-DISCIPLINE Go?

How Far Can Our SELF-DISCIPLINE Go?

How Far Can Our SELF-DISCPLINE Go?  Oh well, SELF-DISCIPLINE is more about HABITS than genetics.  And for people who are fully aware of their SELF-DISCIPLINE issues, studies show that most of them are into that problem NOT for the lack of desire or motivation. The reason we do struggle to be more DISCIPLINED isn't a moral failing or faulty genes.  Instead, it is our BAD HABITS that seem to interfere with our natural ability to be DISCIPLINED💴💷💵

So, if we want to be more SELF-DISCIPLINED, we need to learn to identify the GOOD habits.  And as studies show, SELF-DISCIPLINE won't be far behind.  HOW?  Primero.  RELY ON YOU WILLPOWER.  People with rock solid SELF-DISCIPLINE understand that WILLPOWER is the very last resort.  The analogy here is the car's emergency brake.  That is NOT a must-have.  In fact it is NICE TO HAVE but if we are in serious trouble, that's your lifeline📗📙📘

Word of caution though.  WILLPOWER should NEVER be our primary strategy for accomplishing difficult things.  SELF-DISCPLINED people understand that there are far more effective strategies for staying committed to challenging GOALS and TASKS.  The Roman Emperor, Marcus Aurelius was widely quoted YOU HAVE POWER OVER YOUR MIND, NOT OUTSIDE EVENTS.  REALIZE THIS, AND YOU WILL FIND STRENGTH.  And Plato, the ancient Greek philosopher said: THE FIRST AND BEST VICTORY IS TO CONQUER SELF💎💎💎

Sometimes [and probably MANY TIMES], emotions will come into play.  Because more often, managing [a.k.a. CONTROLLING] our emotions is much tougher.  BUT learning to effectively lead oneself [and even others] will all come down to DISCIPLINE.  Happiness, success and fulfillment stem from FOCUS and SELF-CONTROL✅✅✅

It may be hard to believe WHEN we're facing an EAT-ALL-U-CAN buffet, that prospect of making a quick buck or the lazy lure of sleeping versus grinding [and kicking your butt out hard enough].  Our takeaway here is that, if you want to take CONTROL of your habits and choices to lead you towards a firmer SELF-DISCIPINE, as the Nike advert goes, JUST DO IT❗❗❗

Heard of COGNITIVE RESERVE?

Heard of COGNITIVE RESERVE?

Heard of COGNITIVE RESERVE? Nope, not until I stumbled across that piece from Harvard Medical wherein their researchers described individuals with no apparent symptoms of dementia WHO nonetheless were found at autopsy to have brain changes consistent with Alzheimer's disease BUT their question is WHY they did NOT show symptoms of the disease while they were alive because they had a large COGNITIVE RESERVE to offset the damage to their brain💴💷💵

As I am NOT even a novice in the medical field, in layman's terms, COGNITIVE RESERVE is defined as our brain's ability to improvise and find alternative ways of getting a job done.  So, this puts emphasis in the ability of our brain to be AGILE to solve problems and cope with challenges.  So how is COGNITIVE RESERVE developed?  As per Harvard Medical, it is developed by a lifetime of EDUCATION + CURIOSITY📗📘📙

Harvard Medical highlights that our brain health involves lifestyle changes based on these cornerstones:

• EAT PLANT-BASED DIET
• EXERCISE REGULARLY
• GET ENOUGH SLEEP
• MANAGE YOUR STRESS
• NURTURE SOCIAL CONTACTS
• CONSTANTLY CHALLENGE YOUR BRAIN

Mayo Clinic, one of the biggest U.S. medical providers highlights that in addition to protecting our heart and staying physically fit, there's another factor that may play an important role in preserving our BRAIN health and that involves the concept of COGNITIVE RESERVE💎💎💎

Mayo Clinic researches found that ordinary yet intellectually stimulating activities such as using a computer, playing games, reading books and engaging in crafts, were associated with a 30 to 50 percent decrease in the chances of developing mild COGNITIVE impairment as we age❗❗❗

As with physical exercise, the Mayo Clinic study showed that some activities seem to provide more of a COGNITIVE workout than others.  Example, they found that reading newspapers had LESS EFFECT than reading books.  And watching less TV was more favorable for COGNITIVE health than watching more TV.  This should serve as an inspiration for us to sit down with a good book rather than watching more TV.  Other studies have mentioned taking courses, learning new languages, travelling, to name a few.  So, our takeaway today is that COGNITIVE RESERVE is very much in our hands✅✅✅

Does BODY LANGUAGE Matter?

Does BODY LANGUAGE Matter?

Does BODY LANGUAGE Matter?  Yes dude, absolutely.  As we DON'T just communicate with words, we also communicate with HOW we hold ourselves, our facial expressions, our hand gestures  and more.  In fact, there are times when we are oblivious that we are, in fact, communicating via our body language even if keep mum💴💷💵

Now for the sad part.  Still, many people DON'T always verbally communicate WHAT they mean.  And no, this DOESN'T necessarily mean they are lying.  In reality, it might just mean they AREN'T the best at verbal communications [BTW, none of us is perfect!].  The question I received once before was, IS THERE A WORKAROUND for this disconnect?  Yes there are workaround but NOT to forget, we can only CONTROL what we can📗📙📘

So, this tells us that learning the different types of NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATIONS can take us far and help us avoid or deter miscommunications OR misinterpretations in our interactions.  Interestingly, BODY LANGUAGE varies from culture to culture.  When I lived in India for eleven months, I made sure I was familiar enough as I DON'T want to cause a disconnect💎💎💎

When talking about reading BODY LANGUAGE, psychology is probably the first thing that pops into our minds.  NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION gives us clues into a person's psychology and WHAT they are truly thinking, no matter WHAT they might be VERBALLY communicating.    Now, there will be times we get 'MIXED SIGNALS'✅✅✅

So, how do we handle if we get those 'MIXED SIGNALS'?  No harm to ask someone WHAT they are thinking.  Straight and direct is definitely the way to go over making assumptions that could result in a disagreement, or worse, confusion.  So, yes, BODY LANGUAGE matters till today❗❗❗

Do We Need WILLPOWER?

Do We Need WILLPOWER?

They say that all the Gen Z's are looking for WILLPOWER day and night.  They will eat junk food for the whole day.  YET they look for WILLPOWER.  They will NOT prioritize WHAT's truly important BUT they will look for WILLPOWER.  Pardon my words but some might just make 'stupid' choices BUT they will still look for WILLPOWER. DO WE NEED WILLPOWER💴💷💵

Truthfully, WILLPOWER is the hardest path in today's crazy rough and tumble world.  You DON'T even need it.  It's just unnecessary.  Which reminds me of that RABBIT & TORTOISE story.  The rabbit DIDN'T prioritize strategy and slept a LOT.  So much so that it just forgot that things were NO more in its control.  Life is just like that.  Fine, I get it.  You crave for junk food a lot.  Just DON'T keep any junk in your home.  Then your craving will just vanish💎💎💎

Studies showed that environment outperforms WILLPOWER.  Frankly, we are advised to chase the REAL DOPAMINE.  Name it.  Sunlight.  Healthy food.  Workout.  Talking to people in person.  Studies show that they are our REAL DOPAMINE buddies because they will boost us up for the whole day.  Like if you just workout for an hour in the morning, you WON'T give a damn how you FEEL💎💎💎

Me thinks it's tough to shoot down the results of those studies on WILLPOWER because it proved that the boost in one's body is REAL.  Lying on the couch is NOT real.  It would make us an addict to DOPAMINE that turns our energy levels down, until you DON'T feel going to work❗❗❗

Let's take INSTAGRAM as an example.  You launch the app, scroll down, then things continue that way for an hour.  So you think you scrolled for an hour?  NO sirrrrs.  INSTAGRAM made you do that.  It took all your data from your behavior and made you their SLAVE.  What's our takeaway?  Studies show that WILLPOWER rarely works in today's world.  So, you just need to go for your REAL DOPAMINE buddies✅✅✅

Jealousy, Anyone?

Jealousy, Anyone?

Jealousy, Anyone? WHO has not been JEALOUS in his/her life?  Absolutely NO ONE, because we're all just humans. JEALOUSY will make us feel all kinds of things, name it.  It will make us feel as if NOTHING is going right in our life and that everyone around you is somehow much better and more capable than you.  JEALOUSY remains an essential feeling that we encounter sometimes in our lives💴💷💵

While for some the emotion surfaces a bit too easily, there are others WHO fail to feel JEALOUS, no matter how hard you try.  And sometimes we'll be wondering HOW can one NOT feel JEALOUS ever, right?  It's true.  Once you have complete FAITH IN YOURSELF, feeling JEALOUS won't be a common occurrence📗📙📘

Realizing your self-worth is necessary OR you'll be drawn to bigger chunks of NEGATIVITY gripping your life.  People WHO get JEALOUS easily, face situational problems like inability to deal with difficult circumstances in a calm manner, killing the motivational drive and many more harmful impacts.  JEALOUSY makes you feel like giving up in times WHEN and WHERE it is necessary to SUCCEED💎💎💎

It then makes you feel LESS OF A PERSON than you actually are.  Your mind begins to critically analyze everything in a VERY negative sense.  You begin doubting the actions of people around you and critic every response OR action of theirs.  From our childhood, we were taught to TRUST and LOVE people around us.  WHEREAS the actions of JEALOUS people are extremely contrary to WHAT we were taught❎❎❎

Our takeaway here is that we should always be happy with WHAT we have been blessed with, and work hard to achieve our GOALS and ambitions.  JEALOUS people tend to undermine themselves and constantly compare themselves to others.  Oh Oh, that feeling itself will destroy one's faith in themselves.  Worse, it will slowly diminish your relationship[s] and friendship[s].  Do change overnight and DUMP JEALOUSY out the window, please❗❗❗

What Can Keep Us Going

What Can Keep Us Going

Not to sound dramatic but let's paint horrifying scenarios like we're steering our ship through a wild, stormy sea.  Then the waves rear up like angry giants, crashing against your vessel.  Then, it feels like the world is throwing its worst at you, right?  Daring you to turn back.  BUT you stand firm at the helm, eyes fixed on the distant horizon.  So What Can Keep Us Going?  Oh yes, all our lives go through rollercoaster rides through storms and in that storm, your anchor comes down to one gritty word:  PERSEVERANCE, that determination that sets apart successful people apart from the rest of the pack.  Indeed, the FIRE KEEPS BURNING even after a series of setbacks.  It's that unwavering belief in your vision, the refusal to give up even when the odds seem insurmountable📗📙📘

Well, well, well, PERSEVERANCE comes in a 'package deal' with purpose and a calling.  It keeps you going but the calling comes with a price if you decide to stick it out.  You may have 18-hour days for awhile BUT unless you have a lot of PASSION for your work OR your calling, you may NOT see your vision to come into fruition.  What drives PERSEVERANCE💴💷💵

Undoubtedly, it all boils down to PASSION.  Otherwise, your PERSEVERANCE is often misguided by the wrong intentions.  PASSION is the engine that puts PERSEVERANCE into overdrive mode to think up BIG ideas, solve BIG problems, and make the world a better place.  NO passion, NO perseverance, it's as simple as that💎💎💎

We can try it ourselves BUT without PASSION and PERSEVERANCE, we CAN'T claim to have that tenacity that will cause us to fizzle out because our heart's NOT in it.  So, what will KEEP US GOING and KEEP THE FIRE BURNING?  First off, CLEARLY know your dream.  What's your END GAME?  Picture it vividly.  It could be having a thriving business OR leaving a mark in your calling✅✅✅

Follow that up by NEVER FORGETTING your flops.  Think of those setbacks that brought you and your knees down to the ground.  Each 'NO' in the signpost is pointing you in a different direction BUT that's NOT a dead-end.  It's a DETOUR instead.  And if needed, CHANGE TACTICS.  If one approach isn't working, try a different route.  Then in your 'SMALL WINS', TOAST for it.  The rat race we are in ISN'T  a sprint but a marathon.  Celebrate those little victories along the way to KEEP YOU GOING, to KEEP YOU MOTIVATED❗❗❗

When Things Go Wrong

When Things Go Wrong

In life, every trial will test us.  And when everything goes haywire, the temptation to quit is quite strong.  BUT, for those who press on, people get a chance to see WHO you really are WHEN everything ISN'T going your way.  That ability to keep your head and move forward is priceless.  There is always someone watching HOW you handle yourself WHEN THINGS GO WRONG💴💷💵

Which reminds me of Nancy Solari, the legally blind CEO of Living Full Out and a popular author and motivational speaker.  And in one of her shared experiences, she says that although we do face occasional setbacks, each day is the result of 'INTENSE PLANNING', starting from her guide dog to the software and tools she would use.  All these despite the fact that she even experienced very extreme complications of her vision.  YET, she hurdled all those challenges by keeping close to her mantras📗📙📘

Lifting from researches, most of those studies focus on a core list of mantras.  Primero, remember that THIS TOO SHALL PASS.  Sometimes, life's rough patches feel like they're going to last forever.  BUT the fact is, whether you're dealing with work-related issues, family problems, or other stressful situations, VERY FEW PROBLEMS, if at all, last for a lifetime💎💎💎

Segundo, let us NOT forget that SOME THINGS ARE GOING RIGHT.  Indeed, when things are going WRONG, it's hard to recognize what is going RIGHT.  It's so easy to screen out the GOOD things and only focus on the BAD things.  Do remind yourself that some things are going RIGHT  Purposely look for the positive, even if it is something very small.  Tercero, remember that I HAVE "SOME" CONTROL.  One of the most important things to remember is that you have "SOME CONTROL" of the situation.  Even if you AREN'T in complete CONTROL of the situation, one thing you can always CONTROL is your attitude and reaction.  Focus on managing WHAT is within your CONTROL❗❗❗

Cuarto, always remember that MUCH OF THIS WON'T MATTER IN A FEW YEARS.  This truism stands out through the years and it can never be rebutted.  WHY?  Because the best secret out there is that TIME is our best ALLY.  TIME will give you that chance to 'LEASE FOR A NEW LIFE', that second chance to pick up the pieces [sometimes from the rubble].  In truth and in fact, MOST of the problems we worry about today WON'T actually matter five years from now.  Let us remind ourselves that WHATEVER is going WRONG now is only a small fraction of your actual life.  And even if you're dealing with a major PROBLEM, like a loved one's illness, remember that a lot of GOOD things are likely to happen n the course of a year or two.  So, WHEN THINGS GO WRONG, it's NOT the end of the world, NOT AT ALL, dude❎❎❎

Are You In 'AUTOPILOT'?

Are You In 'AUTOPILOT'?

No sirrrrs, our thread today has got nothing to do with pilots, aircrafts and flights.  Instead we'd like to dip our hands in that 'AUTOPILOT' which, to date, we know that it's an OPTION only available for pilots right there in the aircraft cockpit.  And we would like to take a leaf from their pages, whether 'AUTOPILOT' will help improve the way we steer our life💴💷💵

Back to our life, if and when we live life in 'AUTOPILOT', we will experience the present moments passively while the routines are familiar and bring you a sense of comfort, you tend to 'ZONE OUT' and NOT engage with what you are doing.  We've all experienced this before.  You put on your headphones and tune into a podcast to go grocery or to the gym📗📙📘

Our daily routines are designed to be monotonous and sometimes even boring so that we DON'T have to eXert eXtra energy thinking about these daily actions.  They are meant to set you up for SUCCESS so that you are prepared.  Problem is, WHEN we start on 'AUTOPILOT' constantly, without questioning our thoughts, habits and actions, we may sometimes get too comfortable and forget to challenge ourselves to do things differently💎💎💎

Then, over time, we tend to accept the STATUS QUO as our truth and even as the 'ONLY WAY OF BEING'.  Instead of living on 'AUTOPILOT', isn't it time for us to live more consciously primarily because the 'BEAUTY IS IN THE PRESENT'.  So, WHAT do we do?  First off, let's go back on the DRIVER'S SEAT.  However, behaving intentionally is vital when we must think through a situation✅✅✅

Choosing which system to use is like getting back on the driver's seat and that's what we want, you decide when to go on 'AUTOPILOT' or NOT.  It's more comfortable to let life happen to you than making it happen.  BUT if your 'AUTOPILOT'  is always 'ON', you are just existing, NOT living.  So, ARE YOU IN 'AUTOPILOT'❓❓❓

Is Passion Still 'IN'?

Is Passion Still 'IN'?

If there is something everyone agrees in life, it is the fact that PASSION is the powerful driving force that fuels our dream, propels us through challenges and brings a SENSE OF PURPOSE to our lives.  It is the spark that ignites creativity, motivation, and a deep commitment to WHAT we love. In a world Is Passion Still 'IN'❓❓❓

In a world where PASSION often takes the backseat to the demands of our daily life, the question to us is HOW CAN WE REKINDLE that inner fire and live a life filled with PURPOSE?  BUT before deep diving into this thread, let us align with regard PASSION.  It is NOT just a fleeting emotion.  It is a profound and sustained enthusiasm for a specific activity, goal or cause📗📙📘

PASSION is a deep-seated love for something that drives you to invest time, energy and effort into its pursuit.  Whether it's about your career, a hobby, a relationship OR a personal mission, PASSION is what makes life truly meaningful.  BUT here's the thing, even if you feel you got that PASSION now, please NEVER rest on your laurels but instead, continue to pursue and sustain PASSION💎💎💎

So, WHY don't we rediscover PASSION more than what we know now. To be PASSIONATE about something, the very first basic rule is to first discover WHAT truly excites you.  And the key things here are one's SELF-REFLECTION and that urge to EXPLORE.  So, how can we uncover our TRUE PASSIONS yet unnoticed❓❓❓

WHAT activities make you lose track of time?  WHAT are your core values and beliefs?  WHAT would you do if you had all the money in the world?  WHAT issues or causes do you deeply care about?  Your 'honest' answers to these 'WHAT' questions should lead you to uncork those PASSIONS you need to pursue.  So, yes, PASSION IS STILL "IN"❗❗❗