Why 'Small' IRELAND can be 'Big'
Most of us, including pundits and political analysts, equate size with power and prestige. That's when the sheer sizes of China and Russia make them default members of the revered G-7. But who cares about smallness ? Look at the smallness of Ireland and the tiny islands across the Pacific. Have you heard them grabbing the headlines ? No senor. Why? Hmmm, well i'd like to point fingers to the self-declared pundits and analysts who feel they pretty know the global community like the palm of their hands. But let me play devil's advocate here. Why do we hardly hear about Ireland? About Kiribati Islands? Or even about the Faukland Islands wherein the U.K. was drawn to real war skirmishes not too long ago. Too nad, when any of the G-7 countries sneeze, the rest of the world catches cold faster than lightning.Now, if I post the names of Robert de Niro, Liam Neeson and Colin Farrell, surely it will catch your attention, right? Each of them have etched in stone their accomplishments to date, yet, are we aware enough of the commonality amongst them? Yes, they're all of Irish descent, so that shouldn't make you surprise by now as to how far have they scaled the heights of being recognized and respected in their own craft.Oh, which reminds me of my favorite boss long time back. He being an Irish, we did had a taste of his temper but that's just a fly in the ointment because everyone simply loved and embraced him in our organization. His personal charm and warmth was something almost everyone cherished in him. Many years later, I realized that those traits were very Irish, so that makes me less surprised, albeit decades behind.What's interesting to realize though is that you DONT need to be of Irish descent to manifest any of the most admired Irish traits. Appreciating their traits of charm and warmth and 'walking the talk' can turn ourselves into token replicas of the admired Irish traits. Let's swing over to the United States. Quite a long list of the most admired Americans are of Irish descent. JFK decades back. Fast forward today, we have President Joe Biden. Regardless of political color, the lesson here is that we can bring forward our own cultures even when we migrate and your culture will never be lost as long as you manifest the traits that made you one.❗❗❗No one size fits all. That explains why we're here, to share my 2-cents where it's worth it.
Sunday, June 6, 2021
Saturday, June 5, 2021
Block Out the NOISE
Block Out the NOISE
The world we live in is undeniably noisy. The uncontrolled decibels of noise is just everywhere. And ironically in life, noise should not be taken literally but it's inclusive of all the whispers that run through your ears coming from all corners. When we wanted to buy an item, isn't it there's noise from within us, playing devil's advocate and dissuading us from buying that item? When we wanted to go driving out of town, something within us tells us to not go at all. When we wanted to pour out all our efforts at work, something within us pulls us the other direction and tempts us just to call sick so you can go elsewhere !Even our domesticated dogs could feel the brunt of all the cacophony in our noisy and nosy world. If pet animals can feel this way, how can you expect the threshold of humans to be so high to control whatever decibels are aired out. Much as we have to be pragmatic that noise is here to stay in our connected world, it is worth noting that a big chunk of our decisions in life end up at the other side of things because of the ill advice we would get from people around us.Please DONT get me wrong. We're not shunning away from counselling and guidance which we will always need in life. But instead, what we need to filter are the noises around that may end up to be detrimental to your decisions in life. Remember our mindsets ? It even emits both the positive and the negative noise. The onus is on us to validate which NOISE is positive or not. Where you end up picking up the wrong noise, down the drain you go.Thursday, June 3, 2021
That Coping Mechanism
That Coping Mechanism
Who doesn't need to have those coping skills? Everyone needs it. Everyone must have it, in fact. See yourself devoid of that coping mechanism, those coping skills, it could lead you to another path that will misguide you down. On the other hand, most of us tend to feel that we have it all, we know it all, there's just no need for us to re-tool and ramp up our soft skills. That is the worst assumption we can ever have, that misguided notion that you don't need anything, that misplaced thinking not to fix if it ain't broke. What are our most common pitfalls?
Oh I DON'T want to commit mistakes. Oh, I want everybody to like me. Oh I want to be perfect. How do we fight off these misguided premises ? Start looking at adjustments to be better than what you do. Indeed, it's a natural inclination to put ourselves down. We were born negative with a negative consciousness because we were born in a negative world. And this is where our coping skills will come into play. You need countermeasures. Can't standstill and lose by default.Wednesday, June 2, 2021
Remember You Never Left
Remember You Never Left
In our toughest times in our life, how many times we felt giving up and just leaving everything behind ? When you were teetering to just give up, when it was like the last straw that hit the camel's back, what made you decide to hang on ?Indeed, those are the toughest times in our lives, when the easiest way out was to give up BUT, here's the BUT. Did we realize all the efforts we have exerted to date ? Did we remember all the hardships we had to go through ? And how about those successive pains, frustr4ations and failure ? And when we wanted to give up, did we remember our loved homes with whom we have committed our lives regardless as to what happens next to us.But rather struggle on that misguided fear of going back, remember you can't be back if in the first place, you never left, right ? That's the upside of not giving up. Otherwise, going back is the worst thing we all dread. Remember walking away ? Because turning back becomes difficult. Remember raising the white flag ? And when you wanted to turnaround, it was tough.And what's the biggest upside of not giving up and not leaving things behind ? You would realize that you have enough time left, time unspent, enough reservoir of hope to cling on as you continue on your journey. One of the most difficult and gruelling pains in life is picking up the pieces by starting [ALL OVER AGAIN] from square one, simply because you have given up too soon. More often, misguided decisions [to GIVE UP] were made emotionally rather than giving it the thought process to decide in a logical or pragmatic manner. Or worse, when 'whisperers' around you did influence you to reach those ill-advised decisions when you were at the lowest point in your life.Tuesday, June 1, 2021
The Sky is NOT Falling
The Sky is NOT Falling
For whatever reason, you may be unwell now. Could be you're suffering from some symptoms of a possible illness. Could be some faux pas at work. Could be domestic arguments at home. Could be finances. Could be issues with your relatives. Could be your business seems on a 'free fall' or it could be all because of this pandemic. Nevertheless, trust me, "THE SKY IS NOT FALLING", not at all. Setbacks happen here and there. Life's a rough and tumble game [who says you'll walk on a paved road till you reach your destination ?Not as a spiel but rather as a positive spin of things, when all these 'downy' moments happen, appreciate that it's happening now. Imagine if that happened at a time when you were in a much worse situation? Can you imagine how can you handle multifarious crises all in a snap? No one can't, and that's a fact. So, the mere fact that you can endure now what you need to endure means you got what it takes to move forward. Any weaker soul would have just given up and tagged as a hapless soul beyond resuscitation. Remember that after the typhoon, the sun will eventually shine. After the floods, things will dry up.Key thing in life is DON'T PANIC. Remember the tragic tsunamis that hit Japan a few years back ? When even cars were floating like pieces of toys around Sendai City ? The day after, Japanese were patiently queueing, with heads bowed. We didn't see at all any situation where panic was all over the place. What have we witnessed in countries got got hit with tragedies ? There was pandemonium and total chaos, people running like headless chicken with no directions but simply pushing others who got into their way. What was the end result ? More casualties. More lives lost. Losses mounted.There is no secret formula to contain a problem, to do a 'damage control' except to "KEEP CALM". At the height of a tragedy, standstill, DON'T go against the tide. DON'T push yourselves against an immovable wall. Let that wall collapse before you make your move[s]. At the height of the typhoon, you DON'T go out there like Superman and go against the heavy downpours and the unabated floods. Remember, THAT TOO SHALL PASS. What matters most is your attitude because everything else piggy-backs into it till you shape up to be resilient enough to withstand and endure any ordeal that comes into your way as along as you remember that THAT TOO SHALL PASS. If your pessimism engulfs you till you end up in a state of stupor, you will be immobile and paralyzed, likely mentally, as your cognitive part will feel crippled to handle a situation that's damning to say the least.Remember, THAT TOO SHALL PASS. And remember the community around you. They will survive. YOU will survive. All it takes is, once the fury of the storm finally stops, thank GOD that you survived the ordeal then in the order of priority, BE CALM as you pick up the pieces and rebuild what was either damaged, ravaged or lost. Remember, another day dawns and we got that chance to stand again.❗❗❗
Monday, May 31, 2021
A Jolt Won't Hurt
A Jolt Won't Hurt
When you're down, there's no way to go but UP. When you're bordering between surviving or failing, you won't need a tap on your wrist. When you're so bloodied and bruised, your coach and mentor would be screaming hard through your eardrums, egging you to give it all and if need be, EMPTY YOUR TANK. Those are the kinds of jolts we need in life when circumstances dictate such because anything less than that will be an exercise in futility. A Jolt Won't Hurt.When you're medically ill, you may be afraid of vaccinations and even surgical procedures but if you're at your lowest point, why deprive yourself of that jolt if that swings your fate back to life, literally speaking. At various points in our life, when we're there languishing in pain or difficulty, you just wanna summon anything as in anything so as to resuscitate things. Worst thing is if you feel helpless out in the wilderness, with your health and survival teetering at the very edges of what can make or unmake you. If you need to overhaul yourself, your character, your discipline and your very priorities, JUST DO IT. Don't even think twice about it because there is not another chance.What keep things from doing what you don't want to do? Firstly, it's FEAR, that fear to take second chances of yourself but hey dude, if you can't give yourself those second chances, who else will ? That LIMITED VISION, that makes you unable to to see yourself beyond what you are now. Bluntly, YOU DON'T SEE LIFE AFTER. That's just despicable to say the least. That LACK of SELF ESTEEM, that's just pitiful because you can't see things better for you. To quote the respected inspirational speaker, Dr Blanton: 'FEAR IS THE MOST SUBTLE AND MOST DESTRUCTIVE OF ALL HUMAN DISEASES'. FEAR kills dreams. FEAR kills hope. FEAR can even age you. FEAR can you hold back from something you know you're capable of doing it but in the end, you feel paralyzed with that hypnotic spell. RISE UP, dude.❗❗❗Sunday, May 30, 2021
Have You Stopped Your 'TUITION CLASSES' ?
Have You Stopped Your 'TUITION' ?
Have you stopped your TUITION yet? Yes, this query is directed to everyone of us. This is not a misplaced or misguided question. In one of the talks hosted by Les Brown, a very respected American inspirational speaker, he did pose this question to the audience. And expectedly, everyone felt stomped with it.Oh, that toga. it brings us back to those nostalgic moments when you were formally confirmed to have graduated from your school's portals. Indeed, who won't feel emotional after enduring so many long years of challenges in the academe but we got a bit of an issue here. Most of us thought that, that was the culmination of all the tuition. Les Brown disagrees though.Did you get perplexed and confused ? Because you likely thought that topics about tuition have been buried as part of our school memories ? But we're all wrong if we thought our tuition ended long time back because tuition is here to stay with us. There's no just no way for us to divorce ourselves from tuition simply because of one key word.It's all because of LEARNING. LEARNING is a lifelong process. LEARNING did not end when we graduated. Nor did it end when you started working professionally. And the more it won't stop even when you go up the corporate ladder. LEARNING comes in various shapes and forms. Your fumbling act will need LEARNING. Your miscues can only be addressed with LEARNING. Your hiccups in life can be best fixed by LEARNING.Why do we need to continue LEARNING ? 'coz we gotta learn what we DON'T know. It doesn't take an Einstein to learn and improve yourself. And learning resources are everywhere. You can tap people you trust to coach and mentor you. By yourself, READ READ READ [not just in the proliferation of social media]. Talk to yourself. Be your own booster.
Start encouraging yourself. Get yourself together. What you knowledge have you learned the past months ? What new skills have you equipped yourself ? Let's monitor subconsciously our inner selves and start talking to yourself. Start encouraging yourself and start saying 'I CAN MAKE THIS HAPPEN' Always remember you can handle all these, except that you haven't figured it out yet.✅✅✅
Saturday, May 29, 2021
When Motivation is NOT Enough
When Motivation is NOT Enough
Life is tough. To live life is expensive BUT there is a big BUT here. There are things in life which are neither cheap nor expensive BUT FREE. Yes it's FREE. And it's spelled M-O-T-I-V-A-T-I-O-N. MOTIVATION is not even inside the cupboard. It's not in the closet. It's right deep within our recesses. But the puzzling question is that why is humanity not on the same page. The names of Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk and Bill Gates are all over our digitized world. But how about the depressed areas of Bangladesh, the huge slums in Mumbai ?
Indeed, those areas in Bangladesh and Mumbai, just to name a few of the depressed areas, shouldn't be given up. Let's NOT give up on the Mumbaikars, the Bangladeshis. They have proven to be resilient through the years yet it's equally depressing because till now, we can't avoid ignoring the huge divide between the top tier and the lowest tiers of our communities. What's fallen on our laps ? It's to figure out what's driving the wedge between these tiers.Thing is, for the same task we perform, there will always be another way to do things different from the way you're doing things now. Simply put, it's admitting that there is an OLD WAY of doing things and there will be a NEW WAY. By tweaking things, sometimes with minimal effort, minimum sacrifice. All it takes is the gumption to shift things from the OLD WAY to the NEW WAY. Let's just overcome that human resistance along the way.How do we overcome that hurdle ? Let's go back to our MOTIVATION. This is no rocket science. And what comprises MOTIVATION ? First off, you got to trigger, ACTIVATE it. Once you're off, sustain that momentum with PERSISTENCE. And as you go through the motions of your PERSISTENCE, step on the gas to further up the ante of your INTENSITY.Good enough we're not lacking in ambitions. In fact, to our credit, we are often times overly ambitious and that augurs well for us because that is the catalyst we need to fire up all the cylinders. What's often lacking is that level of motivation. Everyone may do have that motivation but often, our shortfall is that we have various levels of motivations. Some are motivated just to barely survive. Others are motivated to be in the middle of the pack. Whereas the cream of the crop, they wanna lord things over the very cream of crop. They won't settle for anything less than being on top of the totem pole and while sometimes ambitions may seem too lofty to achieve, we need ambitions as high as the heavens to motivate us TO SOAR HIGH, TO FLY HIGH. YES WE CAN, folks.✅✅✅Friday, May 28, 2021
What Seals our Fate
What Seals our Fate
Good question. WHAT SEALS OUR FATE ? Our foes ? Nope. Our adversaries, if any ? Not at all. Our work environment ? Definitely NO. Or is it force majeure after all ? It's NOTA, none of the above. Unfortunately, that's the worst common denominator of mankind. Count in even the first world versus the third world. America's perennial critics claim that when America sneezes, the third world countries will catch colds. But to me, that's baloney. If third world countries are NOT third world, then they would have been first world.Back to our lives though. If I were a student and I' getting fidgety with the final marks I'll receive in my subjects, the basic question is: WHAT MAKES ME FEEL NERVOUS ? If I'm in a work environment and I'm feeling vulnerable when reorganizations and restructuring comes, what made me feel that vulnerable in the first place ? WHAT LED ME TO THAT DOOMSDAY THOUGHT ? Hmmm, everything happens for a reason. Your state of health now, your academic standing now or your credibility at your workplace was of your own making. Truth is, "NO ONE DECIDES MY FATE BUT ME". If you've gone this far, beat your chest, pat your back. If you've stagnated, don't just tap your wrist. If you're regressing, ask yourself, what were the triggers that caused you to regress. As much as success does not happen overnight, so do failures. You don't get flushed out that instantly into the sewerage. Multiple mistakes could have compounded. Blunders could have happened in streaks. And where were you during when mistakes and blunders happened left and right ? Probably you were up high in the ivory tower, oblivious of what's going on in the ground.Narratives anyone ? Unfortunately, we can't hire ghost writers to write our narrative. To our liking or not, we are our own authors. It's us who lay down the foundations. It's us who plot out our paths. At those crossroads and intersections, obviously, opposing forces within us are pulling us to opposite directions but at the end of the day, it's our call. Sad note here is that often times, we let things take its natural course but in a tossed coin, what if we lose by default, regardless if it's head or tail.Our worst enemy ? That's spelled either in three letters, abbreviated in two. It's spelled Y-O-U, your very own 'ME'. And what is it in us that sometimes dooms us to an ill-fated destiny, it's spelled four letters as F-E-A-R. Why ? It's because FEAR is the worst setback we can ever suffer in life. Because it pushes us back. Because it pushes us to the edges of the cliff, the precipice of what is spelled F-A-I-L-U-R-E. How to avert all these ? FIGHT your FEAR. Overcome that FEAR. Clobber those monsters. Muster all your strength because there is no parachute solution you can cling on. C'mon guys, YOU CAN DO IT.❗❗❗
Thursday, May 27, 2021
Complaining has NO VALUE
Complaining has NO VALUE
Complaining is part and parcel of our inherent rights, either as a team member, a customer or a recipient of any of the various products and services in life. But would you agree that often times, complaining seems to go way beyond the roof in terms of volume or it's just become a difficult pill to swallow when the complaint doesn't hold water, when it shouldn't have been lodged in the first place. Don't get us wrong, though. Everyone is entitled to speak up and articulate where anything is valid, where something needs to be rectified. an improvement area is needed.Where things go overboard are misplaced callouts, unfounded concerns, unreasonable noise that do not have any place in our cycle of feedbacking. Knockers. Nigglers. Censurers. Or simply nitpickers. They DON'T deserve our lending ears. But the constant challenge is to sift through and figure out which are the valid ones versus that ought to be discarded and ignored. And for recurring complaints, where it becomes recurring, this is where escalation kicks-in because at that point, it needs intervention to right the wrong.Straight from my thought processes...
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