Of Winners & Whiners

Of Winners & Whiners

On the surface, Winners & Whiners would look similar [and probably like Siamese Twins].  Oozing with confidence and quite assertive if NOT aggressive.  BUT if for now we'll dump all those labels and simply compare behaviors.  And the person WHO wants to do something will find a way.  And the person WHO doesn't, will readily find an excuse📗📙📘

From a thinking perspective, WINNERS would often keep an open mind as they tend to consciously refrain from thinking that a particular goal mighty be impossible.  As long as they continue to think something is possible, their subconscious minds continue to work towards the achievement of their goals.  Then, swinging over to WHINERS, they WON'T waste time to blurt, "THAT WON'T WORK"❎❎❎

WHINERS will never run out of reasons [a.k.a. alibi] as to WHY they should NOT try it.  And they will go to the extent of justifying their rationale of lacking in effort, their passion OR feelings of fear by telling themselves those 'rational lies'.  And when they start talking, WINNERS talk things out differently.  You would hear POSITIVE words of affirmation and some will even go to the extent of memorizing keywords or self-motivating sentences and they say them out loud over and over again😀😀😀

When a WINNER wants to master patience, he might simply repeat the word 'PATIENCE' fifty times in the morning and fifty times in the afternoon.  Then, when the WINNER is confronted by an irritating co-worker, he would normally respond OR react with patience.  And BTW, WINNERS always find a way to say something POSITIVE to say.  In contrast, WHINERS are more inclined to commiserate and blurt out quite pessimistic and dampened outlooks like 'OH I TRIED THAT OUT BEFORE BUT I FAILED'❌❌❌

Sadly, you could hear WHINERS speak out verbal curses that would surely 'KILL OFF' whatever amount of willingness that is left within them.  Because of the way they think and the way they talk, the difference n the way WINNERS and WHINERS believe is huge, akin to being separated apart by the Red Sea.  WINNERS will keep on trying to find and worm their way.  WHINERS simply DON'T.  That is their stark contract, akin to BLACK versus WHITE, daytime versus night time.  You might challenge me and come up with this big ASK:  Can a WHINER now be a WINNER come next day?  Not too fast, not so soon.  WHY?  Because behaviors and disciplines are NOT instant but instead, they are developed and habitually practiced until it becomes embedded within their persona.  So HOW?  Stop being a WHINER immediately and consistently behave like a WINNER from hereon❗❗❗