99% of the time, we would hear sage advices LIKE follow the path, take the road, go along the course and the like. BUT in reality, sometimes, we DON'T have that path OR road ahead clear enough for us to follow. Worst, sometimes, there is hardly any traces of a road OR even a trail out there in the forest. WHAT do we do then WHEN we CAN'T find a path forward especially WHEN we DON'T know WHAT to do? WHAT's our course to take then???
YES YES yow, in life, we all have times WHEN we are either confused, uncertain OR worst, as a net effect, indecisive. Sometimes it pertains more as to how to resolve a problem we're facing, LIKE preparing for a job interview OR even transitioning into your new job role OR it could as casual OR petty LIKE filing your annual income tax OR in real life, LIKE fixing a leaky bathroom faucet. And there are tons more of issues we face day to day, YET we do get lostπ‘π‘π‘
BUT for these samplings, these are quite straightforward enough. And the bottom line in these samplings, we just need to earnestly learn solving OR fixing that problem at hand. BUT there are times WHEN our problems are NOT so much about skills BUT about emotions that make us indecisive. So WHEN do we get stuck?
- WHEN we DON'T want to upset others
- WHEN you're UNSURE of what you want
- WHEN you want to make that perfect choice
- WHEN you have too many options to choose
NOT wanting to upset others happens WHEN we're afraid of a disapproval OR conflict OR just being put on the spot and needing to defend yourself, WHICH is especially difficult IF you're NOT solidly sure of yourself, of your plan, of your idea. And WHEN you're NOT sure of WHAT you want, that happens WHEN we got tons of ideas as to WHAT to could be the best course to take. YES, I vividly remember many times WHEN I had one too many options at hand, causing myself to get stuck and stalled. And before I realized it, I was indecisive during those times. And of cour se we're sometimes too perfect, too good to be true, we end up struggling with all the mix of options we have, figuring out and eventually getting caught in a loop of indecision as to WHICH IS THE BEST OF THE BESTπ₯π₯π₯
Our takeaway: This may be like a play of words BUT WHEN there is NO clear path, the best practical advice we need to heed is to KEEP WALKING and along the way, you'll be making that path by moving forward in spite of your NOT knowing it beforehand. And as you move forward, trust me, things will become clearer, albeit NOT magically instant. YES dude, we CAN'T go on WHEN OUR PATH AHEAD IS NOT CLEAR ENOUGHπππ





