Never Let Strangers Spoil Your Life
YES, very true, strangers come and go in our life, some leaving a mark in our life [WHETHER that's positive OR negative]. Regardless of your culture, your calling OR vocation, relationships will come into play as one of the most important factors that will pave towards your overall success. Be it at home, at work OR anywhere else. And as we move on in life, our advancement is in direct correlation with our ability to handle relationships. Regardless, Never Let Strangers Spoil Your Life📗📙📘
It is inevitable that there will be times at work, at school OR even in your commercial forays, WHEN you will encounter 'difficult' people. BUT such is life. You CAN'T control the actions OR attitudes of others BUT the upside of these all is that you can control HOW you react and respond to those WHO seem to get under your skin. And here's an age-old advice I heeded from long time back. LESS TALK, LESS HEADACHE💦💦💦
WHAT we always hear is that as long as you are talking about something, that makes things 'CURRENT'. The same is true with someone you consider as a DIFFICULT person in life. The more you talk about him/her, the more he/she remains 'CURRENT' in your life. And WHEN he/she irritates you, it feels momentarily good to talk about that person to another person to validate your feelings [and YES you are entitled to it]. As the adage goes, misery does love company, so you may tend to seek to find anyone WHO will listen to HOW infuriating you feel about that 'DIFFICULT' person😉😉😉
BUT, let's hear from the expert advice of psychologists. That momentary pleasure of talking about that 'DIFFICULT' person only gives you MORE NEGATIVE emotion MORE LIFE. Instead of letting it die a 'natural death', you seem to nurture it [like watering your backyard plants], giving it MORE LIFE. SO HOW? Stop giving life to misery itself. Just stop talking about it. ZIP your lock. Lock your ZIP. Way way back, someone continually got under my skin. It seemed like life always went the way of that person. WHETHER it's having a brand-new car the parents bought based on whim OR the promotion that person landed, at one point, it led me to having that lack of self-assurance and vision for WHAT I could accomplish as the real problem I had to confront and fix💥💥💥
Our takeaway: Many times in life, just WHEN we [wrongly] thought that we have things under our control, it would rear it's ugly head and WHEN those feelings of NEGATIVITY arose, I would often find myself creating scenarios that would never happen, that tendency to play out some things, sometimes imaginary, in my mind. The aftermath of all those would leave me feeling fueled with anger [whew!] and even more irritated, until my getting off-tracked when things spiraled into an abyss of bitterness and ire. Dude, let us NOT get into that path WHEN we let strangers SPOIL OUR LIFE❌❌❌