It's NOT About Something CAN Or CAN'T Be Done!
These days, we have tons and tons of possibilities that we end up with a hard time choosing our key goals OR at least making an informed decision. BUT nowadays, life seems limitless. We can do almost anything we want and WHEN we want it. Opportunities seem to abound endlessly and even the sky seems to be the upper limit. Ironically, it may also mean we'll get overwhelmed by all the choices It's NOT About Something CAN Or CAN'T Be Done!!!
Very true, it's NOT just our career that gets impacted by that state of stupor. Even our personal life can be affected by the endless possibilities we have everyday. Ironically, we often hit the wall, which is frustrating enough. Someone WHO's been alone quite sometime kept registering in online dating sites and yet he can't find the partner he/she wants in life. Over to the kitchen, someone wants to cook that 'perfect dish' but she's been hitting the wall as well. Until she raises her hands in frustration and declares, THIS IS NOT MY CUP OF TEA. Trust me, from that point onwards, she will hardly make another attempt to whip a tweaked recipe to cook that 'perfect dish'π₯π₯π₯
Ironically, as we tend to juggle one too many things almost concurrently, we often end up spreading ourselves thinly. And that's NOT to admit that we will be missing other tasks here and there. At the end of the day, the more serious consequences is you will likely end up getting stressed, tired and maybe even heading towards a burnout, ouchπ§π§π§
Sometimes, we get mixed up with our own play of words. A 'CAN' thing turns out CANNOT. Now you can ask me, HOW did I handle things when I ended up with that "CANNOT" conundrum in the past? Simple dude. I went back to basics. I grabbed a post-it note pad and wrote all the things that I currently do and would like to do on it, using a green colored post-it note for tasks I am tagging as 'CAN' and soon to be DONEπ¦π¦π¦
Our takeaway: I'll be the first one to admit it is effortless to shrug things off and declare a task as CAN'T BE DONE. BUT that brings me to the core of WHAT we really need to do and perform. BUT WHAT gives? It's because many of us struggle with overthinking. We might procrastinate over and over again. The goals and WHAT we wanted were already in front of us. That is WHEN stress creeps. And seriously, I DON'T want to be in that place WHERE you have BIG dreams and hope BUT the reality seems NOT to be WHAT you planned. Our final takeaway: IT'S NOT ABOUT WHETHER YOU CAN DO IT OR NOT. IT'S ABOUT WHETHER YOU WANT IT OR NOT!!!