Is Quitting A Smart Move?

 

IS QUITTING A SMART MOVE?  We've all heard it.  WINNERS NEVER QUIT.  QUITTERS NEVER WIN.  BUT WHAT if we are told right in our fact that, that is a brazen lie?  WHAT IF quitting ISN'T a sign of weakness OR failure BUT actually the SMARTEST move we can make?  I know it sounds absurd hearing these days.  Sadly, we have all been conditioned to think that persistence is everything, that success is simply the result of NEVER GIVING UP.  Seriously???

Recently, I stumbled across a research paper by psychologists claiming that sometimes, QUITTING is exactly WHAT we need to do.  In the past, I did get into these FORKED ROADS and it involved decisions WHETHER I should QUIT OR NOT.  And if there's one thing I learned the hard way in the past, QUITTING is NOT just another one of those cards, just another option.  Sometimes, it even surfaces as the BEST OPTION.  True, we've been taught, told and trained that TO QUIT IS TO LOSE💥💥💥

NOW, let's turn the tables around.  Have you ever stayed in a job OR a relationship OR an activity way way past its expiration date, just because you DIDN'T want to be labelled as a QUITTER?  That dilemma hit me once before I'll unashamedly admit I felt battered 'back and blue'. Admittedly, I was so damn stubborn during those times as I used to think and firmly believed that QUITTING was for people WHO are either weaklings OR that they simply lacked that grit [needed for the grind].  WHETHER it was sticking to a toxic job OR forcing myself to chase goals I no longer cared during those times, I still clung to the idea that if I just pushed harder, things will work out📌📌📌

BUT alas, it DIDN'T.  Instead, I found myself trapped and so miserable, not just mentally exhausted BUT I even so drained, zapped in fact.  And here's the scare:  The more I forced myself to persist, the 'LESS ALIVE' I felt.  Instead, I thought I was counting my days fast dwindling to my 'waning hours'.  It WASN'T until I finally gave myself that 'permission' to quit that everything started to change.  YES, that time [around 2 decades back], I decided to walk away from an activity that seemed 'sucking' the life out of me, and it reached a point WHERE my habits weren't serving me!!!

Our takeaway:  WHEN I did walk away from that activity, I thought that was one of the best decisions I ever made.  At that point, I realized that QUITTING was LIBERATING and definitely NOT defeating.  Because that meant making a conscious choice to stop investing my time, energy and emotions into something that WASN'T working anymore.  Moreover, I realized that I uncorked that unhidden power in knowing WHEN TO LET GO.  Yes, QUITTING CAN BE A SMART MOVE, dude😌😌😌

Does MORE Efforts Mean MORE Success?

 

Does MORE Efforts Mean MORE Success?  Easy answer, dude.  It's both a YES and a NO.  WHY?  Because there are one too many iterations that will prove us right, that MORE EFFORTS mean MORE SUCCESS.  We DON'T need to look far.  Just reflect on the success stories of Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Paul Zuckerberg and Bill Gates.  If they have anything in common besides being the top billionaires till to date, it's the fact that they are the best concrete proofs that MORE EFFORTS mean MORE SUCCESS.  BUT how do we counter that proposition that LESS EFFORTS mean MORE SUCCESS as well?  YES and YES, there are tons of narratives that have proven LESS EFFORTS can still lead us to SUCCESS.  The argument here lies on an assumption that if you put in LESS EFFORTS in your endeavor, once you fail OR flop, WHEN you look back and analyze things, there are fewer things to peruse and that's efficiency per se📗📙📘

One too many studies and researches have been done to dissect the correlation of EFFORTS to SUCCESS and 75% of those results point to the same conclusion, that is, SUCCESS IS NOT DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL TO EFFORT.  The bottom-line here is the EFFORT itself.  Is your EFFORT moving the needle?  BTW, NOT every effort is justified.  In fact, exerting EFFORTS for the sake of exerting it is an exercise in futility and nothing less as SUCCESS is absolutely about WHAT you focus on and HOW effective you use your time to achieve those goals💚💛💜

Frankly and bluntly, just because you TRIED hard DOESN'T mean that that will work OR simply put, that you will succeed!@#$%?  Let's face it, millions of people have become too preoccupied with that 'grind' and the truth is, it is actually burning them out.  YES, by all means, you can TRY.  WHY NOT?  BUT please, let us pursue it with a better and preferably strategic approach.  BTW, EFFORT is just one component of our road to SUCCESS BUT it's NEVER the 'BE ALL'📌📌📌

Other than EFFORT, let us NOT overlook that the equation of SUCCESS encompasses various key variables like SKILL, EFFECTIVENESS, RESOURCES and even LUCK.  And to top it all, the appropriate 'matching' of all the above to the task at hand.  And people with low skills, NO matter HOW much effort they put in, will NOT be successful at accomplishing their goals beyond their competency💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  As outliers, let us ignore those lottery winners WHO became successful even with nary an effort.  On the other hand, many more people work way beyond 40 hours per week.  BUT WHAT's the narrative we will hear?  It's that they have little result to show, if at all.  In short, spending a hell lot of time doing something DOES NOT necessarily mean that you have accomplished anything useful.  YES, you can spend donkey hours on a single task only to realize that you are doing it all wrong.  Dude, NOT ALL EFFORT IS EQUAL.  And in the real world, nobody cares HOW much effort you put in.  Instead, many of our stakeholders care about the results.  That's WHY we would hear KPI's and OKR's, metrices that support the hypothesis that MORE EFFORTS does NOT necessarily mean MORE SUCCESS!!!

So, It Begins When YOU'RE FIRED!@#$%?

 

Kenny Atkinson, the NBA Coach of the Year for 2024-2025 admits that he NEEDED TO GET FIRED.  Frankly, in the NBA, the education of an NBA head coach DOESN'T begin with success.  The lessons start WHEN the same red carpet that welcomed you is pulled and the security code is NO longer valid at the practice facility and a search begins for your vacated job, the one you worked damn hard to get it for a lifetime [ONLY to be fired at the most unexpected timing].  YES, so it begins WHEN YOU'RE FIRED!@#$%?

So, YES, Coach Kenny Atkinson admitted that WHEN he got fired as head coach of NBA team Brooklyn Nets, he has 'GROWN A LOT'.  Admittedly, Coach Kenny said that after getting fired, he got a 'LITTLE TAKEN ABACK and HOW DO I TURN THIS AND GET BETTER'?  WHEN I was fired  [due to the corporate shakeup triggered when Dole owner David Murdock decided to buy back his controlling shares] from my plum I.T. role at Dole Food, I took it hard BUT I took it calmly.  HOW did I extricate myself out of it?  YES, that opened up new trailblazing career opportunities for me as it hastened my plans to migrate and try my luck in sunny Singapore😢😢😢

True, we all dread it.  WHO WOULD NOT?  Losing your job is the stuff of nightmares especially WHEN you NEVER expected it.  Everything from your finances to your personal life gets affected and WHO knows WHEN the next opportunity will come knocking on your door OR WHAT will it be, if at all.  BUT WHAT if that uncertainty and chaos that comes from getting laid off actually leads you in a direction that's even better than you could have imagined???

Let's revisit the recovery paths most of us [WHO GOT FIRED from their job] plotted quite successfully:

• That MOMENT OF PANIC - Obviously at that point in time, I felt helpless and panicked, NOT prepared to handle the darkest time in my life
• NEXT STEPS - As I did NOT have a backup plan, I had to go back to my drawing board and assess all my options and decide WHICH WAY TO GO
• BIG IDEA - Like a voice from the wilderness, that temptation to try my luck at sunny Singapore was knocking incessantly on my door.  I took that call

Our takeaway:  LESSONS LEARNT once I got fired were the best ever life lessons I have had.  That's WHEN I learned how useful was my networking.  That's WHEN I realized I [still] had the support structure. That's WHEN I looked within and take stock of things if I was still resilient enough, with that stamina and sanity to get over the hump.  YES, these life lessons come hard and sometimes it will hit you you hard lightning quick even before you realized it.  YES, dude, SOMETIMES IT BEGINS WHEN YOU'RE FIRED!@#$%?

Improving Is Just 'NOT ENUF'

 

YES, we all welcome IMPROVEMENTS.  WHO does NOT want it?  Because any IMPROVEMENT is always a step ahead of things.  BUT oooooooooooops, let those IMPROVEMENTS not become your 'mouse trap' please.  WHY?  Many of us [and that includes moi many times in the past] [wrongly] thought that IMPROVEMENTS is the ultimate achievement we can secure in life.  BUT let's deep-dive as to WHY IMPROVEMENTS may be most welcome BUT it should NEVER be the ultimate goal we should set because beyond IMPROVEMENTS, there is a hell lot more work to do, like it OR not📗📙📘

At the workplace, we have kind of 'institutionalized' IMPROVEMENTS, tagging it as CONTINUOUS IMPROVEMENTS BUT please DON'T get us wrong here.  We DON'T settle for 'bread crumbs'.  NOT that we are belittling IMPROVEMENTS but per se, IMPROVEMENTS has a GIVEN  and that GIVEN is that the existing 'CORE' remains and instead, what's initiated are all the tweaks and fine-tuning with the end view of IMPROVING things💚💛💜

SO WHERE do we go from WHERE we are right now?  Experts advise us to assess HOW effective are things as it is at the moment.  And from there, define your 'DESIRED OUTCOME' because if you're on Point B after coming from Point A, does it mean, there is NO Point C to explore?  And that includes the probability of totally overhauling things to reach Point C???

Truth is, many IMPROVEMENT efforts we have witnessed in life have, at times, neglected to start with a clear understanding of the desired outcomes and instead focus on more easily observable process metrics.  WHILE focusing on efficiency is NOT a bad thing in and of itself, I'll be the first to argue that a greater emphasis on understanding outcomes is where opportunity arises😊😊😊

Our takeaway:  WHAT has been a recurring narrative many times told, heard and witnessed is that many of us get entranced [over and over again] by that cycle of IMPROVEMENTS.  Given that the rat race we are in, is getting tightening, frankly, IMPROVEMENTS are stop-gap measures BUT we should never end with it.  That's condoning mediocrity, to be frank.  So, dude, think about it, can we think OUT-OF-THE-BOX?  Can we reengineer a process even if it's working fine now but rooms for IMPROVEMENT should egg us to go for the juggernaut because IMPROVING IS JUST 'NOT ENUF' dude!!!

When Some 'KILLERS' Remain Scott-free!@#$%?

 

In all the judicial systems all over the world, most of the time, JUSTICE is fair enough.  BUT do we know that while the sentenced 'KILLERS' are indeed languishing in those jails, there's a breed of 'KILLERS' WHO remain scott-free till now?  Hold your breath dude.  Please DON'T take this so seriously because I'm NOT  literally referring to 'KILLERS' on the run BUT I'm referring to the dream 'KILLERS'.  The Dale Carnegie book titled "HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING" says that one of the reasons WHY we are full of worries is because we are trying to take control of WHAT is happening outside, that we tend to overthink allowing those negative thoughts to go inside us💜💛💚

Thing is, we are NOT living in day-tight compartments.  We AREN'T living in the present moment.  Instead, we seem to be living in the past 24 hours OR living in the next 24 hours.  Alas, rarely we live in WHAT lies in front of us.  I myself, I have my fair share of experiences with worries [and many of them are, admittedly, sort of 'horror stories'].  YES, it comes naturally and just pops into our minds. And usually, it might even keep us awake at night just by going over and over it in our heads.  We can rattle off LAZINESS, ANGER, FEAR, EGO, JEALOUSY and DOUBT.  Any of those WON'T do any good on us.  BUT WHAT's perplexing is WHY is it difficult to live in the present💥💥💥

Unfortunately, like a habit, WORRY has been evolving over time. Through many instances, we tend to continue worrying and that alone does solidify our habitual pattern[s] to our own selves.  LIKE a habit as well, being worried most of the time can be broken.  And that patterns ISN'T fixed.  And it might take some time to break it BUT again, it is breakable.  So, HOW can we break those habits as they form the very core of that vicious cycle😡😡😡

I admit though that I HAVEN'T read that book but alllow me to share my practical approaches WHICH I confidently feel helped me extricate out of it.  And my practical approach was as simple as A-B-C because WHAT I always strongly believe till now is to face my worries.  MUCH as I have my fair share of fears, instead of running away from those fears, I would confront myself with frank questions LIKE:  

• WHAT is the worst thing yet to happen?
• HOW would things be without this worry?

Our takeaway:  The realizations I came about were quite hard, to be honest.  LIKE things are NOT easy.  LIKE at times I admitted it's damn hard to break those fears and worries.  LIKE it will never be a one-off thing because it may haunt me back from time to time.  BUT here's the light of the tunnel [and BTW it's NOT a fast-speeding train], that is, sooner OR later, I'll be able to handle and manage it.  And just like anything in life, the more we feed and condition ourselves to worry about things, it will obey.  Our fix:  Let's take control of ourselves because NO one else will do it for us.  Oh YES.  WHAT a life WHEN SOME 'KILLERS' REMAIN SCOTT-FREE!@#$%?

Stop Wanting So Badly

 

Stop Wanting It So Bad [AND LIKELY YOU'LL HAVE IT].  BUT it's human nature for us to be tempted to spend $$$$$$ even WHEN we are on a budget.  OR even perhaps we are trying to give up watching silly TV programs OR those video games.  SO, WHAT should we do WHEN we want to stop wanting something?  Sometimes, the answer seems counter-intuitive BUT it may be surprisingly simple📗📙📘

SO HOW?  Experts do advise us that as a first step, we should admit that we want something that we have decided it so badly [OR sometimes even so wrongly].  To an extent that we would tell ourselves to ignore that desire and we end up admonishing our own selves if we continue to want it [up to the point of being obsessive].  That dance between our desires and in our attempts at self-discipline creates a tension that, unfortunately, can only be resolved by eventually giving in and having the thing.  Instead, to fully admit that we want WHATEVER it is.  SO HOW did I go through this dilemma before?  After I admitted my own WANTING, I told myself just to get things done [although it may seem admitting that we desire something and then NOT getting it would be torture BUT you'll be surprised to find that the opposite s true.  In fact, it can actually relieve that tension😌😌😌

One thing that challenged me head-on was that inner conflict I had then WHEN WHAT I wanted was sometimes NOT consistent with my behavior then.  YES, I realized then that you can want something and still choose NOT to have it OR do it.  And one way to do this is to make decisions about your behavior before you are tempted with the opportunity.  LIKE if you are attending a company OR networking event for the second year in a row.  Like last year, knowing that drinking alcohol takes you off your game, you decided you DIDN'T want to have any drinks.  BUT once you arrived, you found beautiful glasses full of tasty wine everywhere you turned and then, you caved in.  You would have been much more likely to keep this promise if you had dedicated more than just a passing thought to the goal before for the actual event took place.  WHEN I reached those crossroads, I was confronted with a couple of questions I was hard pressed to respond to💥💥💥

Questions like:  WHY was that restraint important to me?  HOW will I behave if someone offers me a drink?  Would there be any exceptions?  Is there a way my plan to reward myself for complying with my own request?  And HOW can I best support myself in keeping that promise?  I realized that admitting WHAT I wanted and keeping it separate from WHAT I do about is a habit that can build into the discipline we have always wanted for ourself. BUT like all good things, start small and work on it💧💧💧

Our takeaway:  Looking back, I noticed HOW I felt WHEN we do something we wish we HADN'T but instead, pay attention only to the facts.  Another realization was that part of least resistance by learning to become the 'creative force' in my life. Oh Oh, I wish I could say I thought up the ideas on HOW to change behavior patterns all on my own BUT the seed for that wisdom came to me quite donkey years ago.  The hard-earned lessons that resonated through my travails is that, NEVER force your something on something that may NOT be for you.  BUT if at all it is intended for you, it will come.  Trust me, dude!!!

Was Your Personal Credentials Compromised?

 

These numbers from 2024 may seem obsolete BUT these are like current statistics WHICH should send shrivers through our spine.  Just for email addresses alone, 183 million accounts and their associated data have been breached.  BUT let's NOT understate it because those numbers are beyond statistically alarming.  Unfortunately, breaches are an unfortunate reality of this digital era.  Chances are, some of the companies to WHOM we trusted our personal data are going to get potentially hacked📗📙📘

In straight terms, some of the data stored in servers [way beyond our control] may be going to be leaked.  And if you've been online for a long time, that means quite a bit of your and my data is floating around various corners of the internet.  And WHILE there is no single centralized database for all those stolen credentials on the web, one researcher compiled quite a fairly large database, which later we can check if your OR my email address/accounts were somehow breached beyond our awareness💧💧💧

To quote from lifehacker.com, Cybersecurity research company SYNTHIENT has compiled a massive database of stolen credentials from [almost] countless sources across the internet.  Guess HOW big is that compiled breached data?  It is 3.5 terabytes !@#$%? And to quote lifehacker.com further,  the database itself contains [hold your breath] 183 million email addresses alongside the websites they were associated to [I'll admit my own email address is one amongst those breached data ].  Check this site if you may:  https://haveibeenpwned.com/ by typing your email address/acount [with NO passwords]💥💥💥

As such, if your email address happens to be one of the breached data, that will show up and likely, your next question is:  WHAT SHOULD YOU DO? Change your password ASAP, pronto, immediately because the best countermeasure with the least efforts you need to exert.  NOT to be threatening BUT if someone attempts to access your compromised credentials, your exposed data becomes a potentially serious risk❌❌❌

Our takeaway:  UNLESS you DON'T have an email account [WHICH I really doubt that you DON'T have], I very strongly encourage you to consider visiting that above-mentioned site and check if your personal credentials was/were one of the compromised ones.  If you're skeptical about this 2-cents advice, we leave things as it is, hoping you're personal data remain very much uncompromised till to date😡😡😡

Fishing For Trout In Saltwater Is NO MEAN FEAT

 

Fishing for trout in saltwater is NO mean feat.  By analogy, even as we are constantly obsessed to find for opportunities, finding and exploring in a wrong approach may NOT land us to catch that trout as we dreamt of.  Looking for opportunities in a wrong way can mean being reactive instead of proactive, sometimes ending up for us to be focusing on negative aspects instead of seeing potentials OR ending up being overwhelmed by the sheer number of possibilities.  It can also involve NOT leveraging on our existing 'networks' or even missing subtle cues about opportunities disguised as 'problems'📘📙📗

At the workplace, a lot of us [and that includes me sometime in my not so distant past] fail at work and even in life because we tend to focus too much on the obstacle rather on the opportunity at hand.  I'm sure it is often true to many of us.  And WHEN something goes wrong, we spend donkey hours and even days and weeks dissecting it.  Then, we often refer to those episodes as 'post mortems' [whew, I had a fair share of it many times in the past], which, literally means, 'after death'📌📌📌

Nope, I'm NOT suggesting that we should stick our heads in the sand.  BUT I do think we should spend more of our time and our resources focused on WHAT we want to create, WHERE we have been successful, and HOW we can leverage our strengths.  That age-old story of David and Goliath provides us an excellent example of someone WHO focused on the opportunities rather than the obstacle😕😕😕

Whether we are Christians OR not, I guess we have heard that thousands of sermons have been preached about that David and Goliath Story and even hundreds of books have been invested on it.  NOW, skimming back quickly to that story, before David arrived on the battlefield, everyone was focused on the problem, which is Goliath.  No wonder, the eventual champion of the Philistines was nine feet four inches tall and WHO can ignore that kind of behemoth?  And in the midst of that, David arrives on the scene and sees Goliath😡😡😡

Our takeaway:  As everyone knows, David won it BUT NOT because of sheer size WHERE he was severely handicapped BUT because he put more focus on the opportunity and NOT on the obstacle.  Perhaps, if we were David, we would have spent more time focusing on the problem, analyzing Goliath and digging deeper into the problem and trying to understand the various options before us.  NOT David BTW as he NEVER flinched.  Takeaway here is we should rethink about FISHING FOR TROUT IN SALTWATER!!!

Finding The GOOD In The BAD

 

WHEN we're going through something difficult, I'll be the first to admit that it's doubly hard to think positively.  And if you're already feeling depressed OR anxious, it even becomes that harder.  You might even have a hard time noticing anything good about your situation OR about your very life.  BUT that can become a 'double whammy' because if you'll get into that situation, that may even put you on track for that downward spiral.  Thinking positively NOT only feels better than simply thinking negatively.  BUT more than that, it may also help you find ways to improve your situation.  So, HOW do we find the GOOD in a BAD situation💚💛💜

To be happier WHEN we're dealing on something that's tough, as the more common advice goes, we can consciously look for that bright side of life's challenges.  As an example, we can reframe the thought itself.  LIKE 'WHY was I unlucky to have my bike stolen?'  to 'I'm lucky to still have my insurance coverage to buy the newer bike I've been wanting to.  And WHEN you take that approach, experts tell us that it is likely you'll feel better by then💧💧💧

LIKE if you're into dire financial straits, be positive that you still have your home, your family and your basic daily needs met.  BUT of course, you DON'T stop there, right?  If you're facing that home mortgage payment which have compounded with the skyrocketing interest, pick up the phone OR visit your mortgagee bank so that you can propose a restructuring OR refinancing.  LIKE you just went through a serious medical illness, be thankful that you did survive the ordeal and you're very much alive now.  Of course you DON'T stop there because you've got be steadfast to go through a rigorous therapy program.  LIKE if you're grieving when a loved one died, be thankful that your loved one does NOT need to suffer again from that ordeal before he/she passed away.  LIKE if you're given the pink slip because of an economic downturn, be thankful that you are skilled and experienced enough.  Imagine if you're a fresh and very raw graduate from the university???

BUT I'll play devil's advocate here.  All these scenarios I did rattle off awhile back might risk leaving the impression that we should be able to turn every negative into a positive.  NO sirrrrrrrs.  NOT guaranteed.  In reality, it can feel forced OR even futile to tell ourselves upbeat stories about life's biggest hardships.  Here comes the experts WHO tell us that sometimes we forget about those BIG STRESSORS as they tend to come in complex situations.  Take that Covid-19 Pandemic as the threat of illness was threatening BUT many of us enjoyed more time with our family💥💥💥

Our takeaway:  Some of life's BIG STRESSORS can be super negative BUT positive things can still happen out of it.  And even as stresses are complex and heterogeneous, experts advise us that another way to feel better is NOT to change the meaning of anything BUT instead, let us zero-in on those positive elements and just focus on that.  That distinction might seem subtle BUT WHAT that means we DON'T have to feel pressured to feel grateful OR optimistic about a difficult experience in its entirety.  Instead, we're just invited to pay attention to some of the smaller good things that happen alongside it.  In a nutshell,  even overcast and gloomy skies will still show a streak of sunlight at some point.  YES, we can still FIND THE GOOD IN THE BAD😀😀😀

Your NORTH STAR?

 

Your NORTH STAR?  WHETHER your NORTH STAR is a dream, your goal OR your lifetime inspiration, you're right, we've got to have that NORTH STAR in life!  For alignment, NORTH STAR is metaphorically defined as something that could represent your core values, your guiding principles OR even your overaching purpose that provides direction and meaning to your life.  Assuming you're NOT consciously aware of your NORTH STAR, let's go📘📙📗

The reality, however, is that [culling from my past experiences] many of us [at one point I was guilty of this] really DON'T take the time to think about WHAT fuels them, WHAT guides them, and WHAT they were put on this planet to achieve, if at all.  It's true life has a way of keeping us distracted and focused only on the moment.  Day after day and week after week, many people go to work without much thought of anything else.  That's sad, right❌❌❌

BUT I beg to defer that by default, we should really live life like that, right?  Because I believe we are built to do so much more than just to simply survive.  Because we are built to thrive and build a life that we love, NOT just make a living.  One of the true joys really living life is to be of help to anyone other than yourself.  And it's even heartwarming WHEN I end up helping someone WHICH, as an afterthought, I believe that helping is one of my NORTH STARs😁😁😁

Frankly, finding your NORTH STAR would VERY LIKELY help you live a more purposeful life, NOT to say that you are NOT living one now BUT somehow it gives us a reference point to keep ourselves moving in the right direction.  And it DOESN'T mean that life ISN'T still challenging.  Of course, we all have our UPs and DOWNs BUT it's entirely different if we're living with a purpose because by then, it will be much easier for us to stay on track and weather the storms that come our way.  That's WHEN our NORTH STAR really comes into the equation😔😔😔

Our takeaway:  Now let's drill and dice things because we can keep repeating NORTH STAR but it might sound hollow.  Instead, we can do a pulse check of ourselves and ask ourselves, WHAT gets you motivated and WHAT gets you inspired?  And WHAT are the causes and beliefs that will get you out of bed in the morning, rain OR shine, fired up and ready to go?  Yes, DON'T be surprised if you realize that your passion about causes and beliefs DON'T even tie up to your work BUT it could be your NORTH STAR!!!