We Are ENTITLED For What We DESERVE
Who says we are entitled to anything and everything we want and what we wish for? I beg to disagree, even the simplest math equation does NOT run that way though. Yes we can be dreamers but let's discuss DREAMING some other day. For this thread, we want to ensure that we are always grounded. Truth is [and this can lead to an arduous and prolonged debate is that We Are ENTITLED For What We DESERVE.
Guys, did we ever got embroiled into these questions: WHERE DOES YOUR ENTITLEMENT COME FROM? WHY DO YOU FEEL ENTITLED TO YOUR TIME? MONEY? WHY DO YOU FEEL THE WORLD OWES YOU FAVORS? To be more logical, I did a quick research for the definition of ENTITLEMENT which runs as follows: THE BELIEF THAT ONE IS INHERENTLY DESERVING OF PRIVILEGES OR SPECIAL TREATMENT.
Now for real talk. If my shoes are worn out like this, why do I deserve a new pair IF I AM NOT ENTITLED to it? Recent research [https://spsp.org/news-center/press-releases/entitled-people-instructions-unfair] found people with a greater sense of of entitlement are less likely to follow instructions than less entitled people, with one of the authors further saying 'ENTITLED PEOPLE DO NOT FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS BECAUSE THEY WOULD RATHER TAKE A LOSS THEMSELVES THAN AGREE TO SOMETHING 'UNFAR' ".
The use of the term 'UNFAIR' is interesting and this is an important factor when considering why some are considered entitled while others are not. The measure of what is 'FAIR' especially when emotions are involved and heightened, becomes a very subjective concept. So then, what qualifies as 'FAIR'? At this point, we got to caution everyone that arguments from this point onwards can be quite subjective, so caution is suggested.
Fast forward. Let's swing over to the far end, the aftermath, the results, the day after. When the results will trickle in, sometimes we end up upset but as this poster says, 'DON'T BE UPSET BY THE RESULTS YOU DIDNT GET WITH THE WORK YOU DIDN'T DO'. Lesson here is that, we need to be continuously grounded so we are fully aware of WHAT WE ARE ENTITLED FOR WHAT WE DESERVE 📌📌📌
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