Self-Inflicted Wounds as a PRIORITY

Self-Inflicted Wounds as a PRIORITY

This could be the most boring picture, a self-inflicted wound at that.  But do we really need to spend another 5 to 10 minutes for this seemingly mundane subject ?  Yesirrrrrrrrrrs because self-inflicted wounds have been a permanent fixture in our life but it's a fact that we could absolutely avoid because we don't need self-inflicted wounds in the first place.  Any fix that comes next becomes unnecessary if avoidance was given impetus in the first place, we don't even to peddle that Self-Inflicted Wounds are a PRIORITY.

Simply put, why do we need to  prioritize self-inflicted wounds ?  Simple.  We fix what we caused.  We clean up the mess we did.  And why do we need to prioritize?  Simple.  In the first place, that problem should not have been there in the first place, had it not been for us triggering it.

Oh well, prioritization means choosing what problems are NOT to be solved.  Pinpointing the most important problems to solve should always include all problems caused by those self-inflicted wounds.  That reduces the burden of prioritization because it won't be lumped with the rest of your problems.  And that will lead you to come up with fact-based decisions in fixing your problems.

What will guide us in fixing our problems.  It is our directions.  Because that will lead us to our priorities.  If your direction is to funnel your finances towards your business, those holidays and travels may be tagged with lower priorities.  But if your direction s to prioritize self-inflicted wounds, that becomes a no-brainer and no hard-sell should be needed, if at all.  But instead, go and proceed to prioritize fixing a self-inflicted wound because that's a non-issue.   

So how do we clean-up things ? First and foremost, DON'T suppress your emotions although we know that anxiety tends to ramp up when things get messy.  But be aware that shuttind down does NOT eliminate anxiety.  it just buries it. It will hum in the background.  When you address anxiety head-on, you are better equipped to begin working to fix your problem.  DON'T forget to have a TO DO-List and make sure your schedule suits you.  And DON'T forget to take one thing off your plate because you need to agree that you don't need to do all the tasks on your plate except to prioritize fixing a self-inflicted wound 📌📌📌